"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Annoying Polish girl

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Hello everyone from sunny England. Hope someone might be able to help on this?. Where I live there is a bar that I visit on an evening after work where I have a few beers to relax in the evening. Anyway there in a girl who comes from Poland who has suddenly started to come into the bar who has taken a shine to me. To begin with I quite liked her, however now she is becoming a pest. An example of this is that she tries to monopolies the conversation, or if I am playing pool she will say " come and sit with me at the table", also when I go to the bar she will say " can you get me a drink I am too lazy to go the bar", although she does give me the money for this. I now feel when I go to the bar I have to talk to her, though there are many peole I talk to. The bottom line is I don't fancy her, and want to keep her at a distance, although I a want to be friendly. Apparently her mother comitted suicide last month as she was failing with her business in Poland. I think this is true as her uncle came to England to help out with the funeral. Bottom line is that although she seems a nice girl, but controlling I just don't feel I trust her. Any advice?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ask her to sex you up, then when she's on your bed take a dump on her. I guarantee you she won't try to talk to you next time you see her.

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I am Polish and I can tell you that polish women tend to be very domineering. Its probably going to be hopeless.

I myself make a point of not dating Polish women.
 
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I am quite serious with this..I think she either devious or depressive and I maybe become a victim of stalking. She is very controlling. I want to be kind, but I don't want her think we are in a relationship
 
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So give her the LJBF treatment, and stick with it, never go farther than you think friends would go. or you can just start going to another bar!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hope she is not in the bar tonight. Is there anytime when being rude is appropriate?. Lat night she asked me to get her a drink when I was going to the bar, she wanted to drink a combination of blue wicked, smirnoff ice which was about 6 pounds, she gave me three pounds and said I'll buy you the next drink- which she did not. I think I may have to be rude to her soon, even though she has lost her mother and father
 
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No don t be rude, just be your self. If something is bothering you tell her. DON T TAKE CRAP FROM HER (or any other woman). She might be domeneering, but, calmley put your food down. If she hint s she wants a drink, tell her to go get one, its her turn, if she refuses, go and get one (just for your self...)
 
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You can maybe go to a different bar for a while. Then go back and if she is still there dont show up for awhile.:)
 
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well she still comes to the bar, and what is strange is that her mother comitted suicide a couple of months ago, but when we are talking she keeps mentioning she likes zombie films. So I change the subject. I just wish she would bring some female friends to the bar and not be one of the boys all the time. She seems quite possesive.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by I'm Joe Dirt
I am Polish and I can tell you that polish women tend to be very domineering. Its probably going to be hopeless.

I myself make a point of not dating Polish women.
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Are you serious? I know more than enough women that are so dull and boring, so ready to do what YOU want and they are born n bred Pure Polskie dziewczyny. (age 19-25)
 
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Originally posted by Red_Tiger
Hope she is not in the bar tonight. Is there anytime when being rude is appropriate?. Lat night she asked me to get her a drink when I was going to the bar, she wanted to drink a combination of blue wicked, smirnoff ice which was about 6 pounds, she gave me three pounds and said I'll buy you the next drink- which she did not. I think I may have to be rude to her soon, even though she has lost her mother and father
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uh not paying for her isnt being rude.:rolleyes: why u pay for her?:confused:
 
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