"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Annoying Polish girl

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Hello everyone from sunny England. Hope someone might be able to help on this?. Where I live there is a bar that I visit on an evening after work where I have a few beers to relax in the evening. Anyway there in a girl who comes from Poland who has suddenly started to come into the bar who has taken a shine to me. To begin with I quite liked her, however now she is becoming a pest. An example of this is that she tries to monopolies the conversation, or if I am playing pool she will say " come and sit with me at the table", also when I go to the bar she will say " can you get me a drink I am too lazy to go the bar", although she does give me the money for this. I now feel when I go to the bar I have to talk to her, though there are many peole I talk to. The bottom line is I don't fancy her, and want to keep her at a distance, although I a want to be friendly. Apparently her mother comitted suicide last month as she was failing with her business in Poland. I think this is true as her uncle came to England to help out with the funeral. Bottom line is that although she seems a nice girl, but controlling I just don't feel I trust her. Any advice?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Big Eee Zee

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ask her to sex you up, then when she's on your bed take a dump on her. I guarantee you she won't try to talk to you next time you see her.

:)
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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I am Polish and I can tell you that polish women tend to be very domineering. Its probably going to be hopeless.

I myself make a point of not dating Polish women.
 

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I am quite serious with this..I think she either devious or depressive and I maybe become a victim of stalking. She is very controlling. I want to be kind, but I don't want her think we are in a relationship
 

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So give her the LJBF treatment, and stick with it, never go farther than you think friends would go. or you can just start going to another bar!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hope she is not in the bar tonight. Is there anytime when being rude is appropriate?. Lat night she asked me to get her a drink when I was going to the bar, she wanted to drink a combination of blue wicked, smirnoff ice which was about 6 pounds, she gave me three pounds and said I'll buy you the next drink- which she did not. I think I may have to be rude to her soon, even though she has lost her mother and father
 

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No don t be rude, just be your self. If something is bothering you tell her. DON T TAKE CRAP FROM HER (or any other woman). She might be domeneering, but, calmley put your food down. If she hint s she wants a drink, tell her to go get one, its her turn, if she refuses, go and get one (just for your self...)
 

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You can maybe go to a different bar for a while. Then go back and if she is still there dont show up for awhile.:)
 

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well she still comes to the bar, and what is strange is that her mother comitted suicide a couple of months ago, but when we are talking she keeps mentioning she likes zombie films. So I change the subject. I just wish she would bring some female friends to the bar and not be one of the boys all the time. She seems quite possesive.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by I'm Joe Dirt
I am Polish and I can tell you that polish women tend to be very domineering. Its probably going to be hopeless.

I myself make a point of not dating Polish women.
Are you serious? I know more than enough women that are so dull and boring, so ready to do what YOU want and they are born n bred Pure Polskie dziewczyny. (age 19-25)
 

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Originally posted by Red_Tiger
Hope she is not in the bar tonight. Is there anytime when being rude is appropriate?. Lat night she asked me to get her a drink when I was going to the bar, she wanted to drink a combination of blue wicked, smirnoff ice which was about 6 pounds, she gave me three pounds and said I'll buy you the next drink- which she did not. I think I may have to be rude to her soon, even though she has lost her mother and father
uh not paying for her isnt being rude.:rolleyes: why u pay for her?:confused:
 
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