She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Are you kidding me?nikko49 said:yeah i know what you mean...well if someone does this you probably don't care about them...so like just grab them in the hallway some other time and tell them to shutup and be all like, 'hey ur gay, dont yell my name in the hallway, we're not friends'.
oh and if they happen to be your friends...well...just talk to them about it nicely lmao
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
lol yea thats a good thing unless its like some annoying awkward dorkBjj_playa said:i noticed lately if i have a girl with me at my locker, more guys will be like "yooo bjj_playa" and give me a five or something....and if im alone they act different...meh w/e
If they come to talk to you or whatever just respond to them quick and then tell them that you've gotta go to get to class/work/home whatever. There's no need to be rude to them, but you don't need to act like their best friend, either. My best advice is to minimize contact with these people so that their loseresque behavior doesn't start to rub off on you.BBX said:lol yea thats a good thing unless its like some annoying awkward dork