Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Are you kidding me?nikko49 said:yeah i know what you mean...well if someone does this you probably don't care about them...so like just grab them in the hallway some other time and tell them to shutup and be all like, 'hey ur gay, dont yell my name in the hallway, we're not friends'.
oh and if they happen to be your friends...well...just talk to them about it nicely lmao
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
lol yea thats a good thing unless its like some annoying awkward dorkBjj_playa said:i noticed lately if i have a girl with me at my locker, more guys will be like "yooo bjj_playa" and give me a five or something....and if im alone they act different...meh w/e
If they come to talk to you or whatever just respond to them quick and then tell them that you've gotta go to get to class/work/home whatever. There's no need to be rude to them, but you don't need to act like their best friend, either. My best advice is to minimize contact with these people so that their loseresque behavior doesn't start to rub off on you.BBX said:lol yea thats a good thing unless its like some annoying awkward dork