"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Annoyed after SEX, why?

HeyPachuco!

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Its not that the sex is bad, I just feel empty, p!ssed off, bummed, nettled and annoyed. Anyway to curbing this frustration and just getting in the "chill - cool" mood?

I was really a d!ck to this chick last night after we effed, maybe because we had a few shots of Vodka and it got me into a state but this is not how I act and its bothering the fvck out of me.

Maybe I'm not 100% OVER my ex girlfriend and used to the reality of after-sex situations with other girls.

I'm in a good mind to call off seeing this girl tonight. All this work into picking up chicks to get back and put them on a LR, when I could be doing much more productive things, all the virgins here aren't missing squat.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sodbuster

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you've STILL got it on a pedestal. Sex is only important in life for PROCREATION. It's not going to make your life immensely better,only marginally better. I'd rather have it than a hamburger,but making it more important than your job,investments etc? When you quit building it up in your mind,you won't be disappointed and angry after.

The MEDIA and women,have brainwashed you into believing it is more important than it is. IF we could get all men to accept this,women wouldn't have so much power[or percieved power] and would act better.
 

SchoolBoy

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sodbuster said:
you've STILL got it on a pedestal. Sex is only important in life for PROCREATION. It's not going to make your life immensely better,only marginally better. I'd rather have it than a hamburger,but making it more important than your job,investments etc? When you quit building it up in your mind,you won't be disappointed and angry after.

The MEDIA and women,have brainwashed you into believing it is more important than it is. IF we could get all men to accept this,women wouldn't have so much power[or percieved power] and would act better.
True that.. Sex is like a drug, makes u feel good but seriously what does it do for you in the long run...
 

Weezy

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Your annoyed after sex because she wasn't quality enough and you know there isn't a future with her.

I just finished a month long spree of boning 5's and 6's just to get me outta my slump, then I went strait to the clinic to get my **** checked out.. Basically what I realized is that a 5 or a 6 has absolutely nothing to offer me and just waste my time.

You gotta go for quality or it's just a waste of time and you'll keep feeling like that.
 
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