"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Annoyed after SEX, why?

HeyPachuco!

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Its not that the sex is bad, I just feel empty, p!ssed off, bummed, nettled and annoyed. Anyway to curbing this frustration and just getting in the "chill - cool" mood?

I was really a d!ck to this chick last night after we effed, maybe because we had a few shots of Vodka and it got me into a state but this is not how I act and its bothering the fvck out of me.

Maybe I'm not 100% OVER my ex girlfriend and used to the reality of after-sex situations with other girls.

I'm in a good mind to call off seeing this girl tonight. All this work into picking up chicks to get back and put them on a LR, when I could be doing much more productive things, all the virgins here aren't missing squat.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sodbuster

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you've STILL got it on a pedestal. Sex is only important in life for PROCREATION. It's not going to make your life immensely better,only marginally better. I'd rather have it than a hamburger,but making it more important than your job,investments etc? When you quit building it up in your mind,you won't be disappointed and angry after.

The MEDIA and women,have brainwashed you into believing it is more important than it is. IF we could get all men to accept this,women wouldn't have so much power[or percieved power] and would act better.
 

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sodbuster said:
you've STILL got it on a pedestal. Sex is only important in life for PROCREATION. It's not going to make your life immensely better,only marginally better. I'd rather have it than a hamburger,but making it more important than your job,investments etc? When you quit building it up in your mind,you won't be disappointed and angry after.

The MEDIA and women,have brainwashed you into believing it is more important than it is. IF we could get all men to accept this,women wouldn't have so much power[or percieved power] and would act better.
True that.. Sex is like a drug, makes u feel good but seriously what does it do for you in the long run...
 

Weezy

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Your annoyed after sex because she wasn't quality enough and you know there isn't a future with her.

I just finished a month long spree of boning 5's and 6's just to get me outta my slump, then I went strait to the clinic to get my **** checked out.. Basically what I realized is that a 5 or a 6 has absolutely nothing to offer me and just waste my time.

You gotta go for quality or it's just a waste of time and you'll keep feeling like that.
 
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