"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anniversary Gift

TheDoctor

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Would you expect your girlfriend to get you a gift for your one-year anniversary?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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vitor said:
Yes I would... You are getting her something right..
Yes. It's the thought more than anything. I gave her her gifts and she sheepishly looked up and said "I didn't get you anything."

It is noted that she showed up to my house wearing only a tiny see-through nighty and a shawl, decked out with hair and makup. Hot sex followed and then dinner, then I gave my gifts to her.

Am I being AFC or a pvssy because I feel a like she should have at least went to a little trouble being our one-year anniversary and all?

At the time I didn't care at all that she didn't get me anything. She said she was going to get me a card but all the ones she saw were corny and she didn't like them. She also had to work that night and was busy all day too, but she should have prepared in advance like I did, no? It was only when I went in to the office and my buddies were like, "how did it go?", "did she like her gift?" "what did she get you?". It was only then that I was slightly embarassed that she didn't do ANYTHING for our anniversary except show up.
 

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Edit: I thought you were asking for ideas of gifts lol... But, yeah girls who have high interest level in you will get you something.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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