"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ann Arbor, MI

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adpreston1988 said:
Since everyone in this thread is from Ann Arbor I just have a few questions to ask. First of all, what does everyone here think is the best dance club in Ann Arbor? Necto? And second of all, what is everyone's favorite place to shop for clothes? A & F? Hollilster? PacSun? H & M? Old Navy? Eddie Bauer? American Eagle?

Just curious to know everyone's opinion
Necto is alright, I like Scorekeepers and Live. But as a freshman I'd be more interested in the frat scene, especially welcome week. I shop at Express (Briarwood) and Armanie Exchange (Sommerset Mall).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So does anybody know where to meet up?

I'd like to join other wingman to pick-up chicks.
 

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Couzens is a really friendly dorm, I lived there myself for a year. On another note, I just got switched to Markley, @$!@ so many freshman girls whatever shall I do... ehhe
 

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crossboss said:
I'd like to join other wingman to pick-up chicks.

Joining other wingmen to pickup chicks is good.
 

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crossboss

Crossboss,
You're incredibly rude. Don't ever post here again.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm from Detroit, but I go to Schoolcraft in Livonia. I would be up for hangin, but I got no car and no cash :( yeah it sucks, I'm still workin on the job thing. Any other Schoolcraft peeps here?
 

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I don't understand why you think I am rude.

I tried my best to tell you my theories with females. I just wanted to help you. Whats your beef?
 

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I am sorry for what I did. Although I am not sure what I did.
 
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