"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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adpreston1988 said:
Since everyone in this thread is from Ann Arbor I just have a few questions to ask. First of all, what does everyone here think is the best dance club in Ann Arbor? Necto? And second of all, what is everyone's favorite place to shop for clothes? A & F? Hollilster? PacSun? H & M? Old Navy? Eddie Bauer? American Eagle?

Just curious to know everyone's opinion
Necto is alright, I like Scorekeepers and Live. But as a freshman I'd be more interested in the frat scene, especially welcome week. I shop at Express (Briarwood) and Armanie Exchange (Sommerset Mall).
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So does anybody know where to meet up?

I'd like to join other wingman to pick-up chicks.
 

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Couzens is a really friendly dorm, I lived there myself for a year. On another note, I just got switched to Markley, @$!@ so many freshman girls whatever shall I do... ehhe
 

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crossboss said:
I'd like to join other wingman to pick-up chicks.

Joining other wingmen to pickup chicks is good.
 

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crossboss

Crossboss,
You're incredibly rude. Don't ever post here again.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm from Detroit, but I go to Schoolcraft in Livonia. I would be up for hangin, but I got no car and no cash :( yeah it sucks, I'm still workin on the job thing. Any other Schoolcraft peeps here?
 

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I don't understand why you think I am rude.

I tried my best to tell you my theories with females. I just wanted to help you. Whats your beef?
 

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I am sorry for what I did. Although I am not sure what I did.
 
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