"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ankle weights?

dawg89

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are their any advantages to them and would it harm your ankles if you just walked around with them in school? and would you benefit from walking around in them?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i dont se how they could do you any harm but really do you think they are going to get you fitter and stronger?
if you wore them while doing standing jumps for basketball or kicks in Martial arts they may help but for general fitness i would say the benifits would be minimal.
just my opinion, not based on facts.
 

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Whatever you do, don't try to skip rope with them on. A guy that I know (who has a degree in kinesiology) told me that it can do major damage to your knees.
 

dawg89

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would they help at all if i wore them during the school?
 

manuva

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What do you mean by help? Help you get laid? I doubt it...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Flyer

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As with all weights, you'll soon reach a plaetau when your body becomes used to it.

Gotta keep increasing... which can only be done with exercises in the gym..
 

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ankle weights can be harmful to your joints due to torque. i dont recommend using them.
 

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i do them whenever i do leg raises, otherwise i dont bother with them.

if you want leg strength, be a man and do squats.
 
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