"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Anger / False anger. Texting help

KingWizard

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Wizard again here.
Was writing with a girl, a bit hot, above average.. She was teasing me, and when I replied in similar way to her(wanted to cut the BS) she said smth like :
HB-"you are mean, have I said today that I hate you?"
My reply was like : "Why can't I hate You girl?".
HB-"lets explain smth. U just can't"
Me - "laughed a bit. But do u have any reason why I can't?"
HB - "U earned it. I hate you"
End of convo basically.
I just writen smth like: "Have I just killed myself? :) ps1.I look better alive than dead"
Aaaand, thats it. Any ideas? A test? BPD? Real anger I don't understand?
Should I be worried, or I played it good. Also, to your mind, she isn't hiding with her manipulative and teasing nature.
Pretty new to texting game, I made it only once for 10 ten different girls. Come and help me guys ;p
Wizard out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What the f*ck man?

Why did you tell her you hate her? And why did you tell her you just killed yourself? Dude on weirdness scale of 1 to 10 you're off the charts.

She's gone. Don't text her or call her anymore, she's not interested because she's thinking you're weird - which you are.
 

KingWizard

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well, my english suck and you may wrongly understand this... whatever.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well, I guess you are right Zion. Filters sucks, so my text game. Gonna watch myself to not repeat the mistake. But it's cool with her now, maybe a bit .. colder? I will turn this one around.
 

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I'm completely lost on this one. For starters, what is "smth"? Does it mean "something"?
 

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Zion said:
It was a tease. And it lost it's magic when you overdid it.

It's a classic mistake. Don't smoke a joint till you hit the filter.
This.
 

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Fugitive said:
What the f*ck man?

Why did you tell her you hate her? And why did you tell her you just killed yourself? Dude on weirdness scale of 1 to 10 you're off the charts.

She's gone. Don't text her or call her anymore, she's not interested because she's thinking you're weird - which you are.
Lol
 
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