"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MurdocIsGod

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So I've been talking to a lot of girls recently on the net, been testing it out. So anyway I was speaking to a very good looking girl on Facebook the other night. This was our conversation on Facebook (very fail):

Her: Thanks for the add, do I know you? X
Me: No you just looked really beautiful :)
Her: Aw thankyou
Me: Lol np, you okay?
Her: yeah thanks you?
Me: fine thanks, you can speak gaelic? :p
Her: only a bit, nothing good aha why
Me: Haha that's mint, how do you ask for a girls number in gaelic?
Her: i dunno lol
Me: oh you ruined my plan now lol
Her: huh lol
Me: I was gonna ask you for your number in gaelic :/
Her: aha cuteee
Me: I know lol, I have to ask in english now but it's less romantic... what's your number?
Her: LOL 118118
Me: LMAO thanks I'll call you right now ;)
Her: alright babessss
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Anyway so that was pretty awful. But today out of the blue she chats me:

Her: Hiya, sorry you must think i'm such a rude person..
Me: hi, why lol?
Her: Because you literly asked for my number and i never gave it to you lol
Me: Aha yeah I know :p well you can make up for it now :)
Her: *her number*
Me: alright mine is *my number*, I'll text you some time
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So there you go... I wasn't planning on ever messaging her again I instead spoke to about 10 other girls today then she chatted me.

Here:
http://i.imgur.com/FbCEf.jpg
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WhitePimp

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I'm no online dating expert, but it's probably a bad idea to automatically tell her she's 'beautiful' like the last 100 guys have done to her. The whole purpose of online dating should be to differentiate yourself from the pack of boring sycophants.
 
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Black Dog

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WhitePimp said:
I'm no online dating expert, but it's probably a bad idea to automatically tell her she's 'beautiful' like the last 100 guys have done to her. The whole purpose of online dating should be to differentiate yourself from the pack of boring sycophants.
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Luckily the girl was bashful and came back to speak to him..

I wouldn't see the problem if Murdoc used the 'beautiful' line, then flipped script immediately and challenged her, made it work for attention or something. He sort of did that with the gaelic comment
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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