"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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MurdocIsGod

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So I've been talking to a lot of girls recently on the net, been testing it out. So anyway I was speaking to a very good looking girl on Facebook the other night. This was our conversation on Facebook (very fail):

Her: Thanks for the add, do I know you? X
Me: No you just looked really beautiful :)
Her: Aw thankyou
Me: Lol np, you okay?
Her: yeah thanks you?
Me: fine thanks, you can speak gaelic? :p
Her: only a bit, nothing good aha why
Me: Haha that's mint, how do you ask for a girls number in gaelic?
Her: i dunno lol
Me: oh you ruined my plan now lol
Her: huh lol
Me: I was gonna ask you for your number in gaelic :/
Her: aha cuteee
Me: I know lol, I have to ask in english now but it's less romantic... what's your number?
Her: LOL 118118
Me: LMAO thanks I'll call you right now ;)
Her: alright babessss
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Anyway so that was pretty awful. But today out of the blue she chats me:

Her: Hiya, sorry you must think i'm such a rude person..
Me: hi, why lol?
Her: Because you literly asked for my number and i never gave it to you lol
Me: Aha yeah I know :p well you can make up for it now :)
Her: *her number*
Me: alright mine is *my number*, I'll text you some time
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So there you go... I wasn't planning on ever messaging her again I instead spoke to about 10 other girls today then she chatted me.

Here:
http://i.imgur.com/FbCEf.jpg
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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WhitePimp

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I'm no online dating expert, but it's probably a bad idea to automatically tell her she's 'beautiful' like the last 100 guys have done to her. The whole purpose of online dating should be to differentiate yourself from the pack of boring sycophants.
 
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Black Dog

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WhitePimp said:
I'm no online dating expert, but it's probably a bad idea to automatically tell her she's 'beautiful' like the last 100 guys have done to her. The whole purpose of online dating should be to differentiate yourself from the pack of boring sycophants.
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Luckily the girl was bashful and came back to speak to him..

I wouldn't see the problem if Murdoc used the 'beautiful' line, then flipped script immediately and challenged her, made it work for attention or something. He sort of did that with the gaelic comment
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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