"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Andrew Tate officially indicted by the Romanian Government
- Thread starter CornbreadFed
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
TheEveningChronograph
Don Juan
LOL, no.
Pierce Manhammer
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and we care…because????
CornbreadFed
Master Don Juan
INB4 Andrew Tate inspires young men lube fuel
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Pierce Manhammer
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Huh?
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
Freedom of speech/ civil rights if any.
Go against the government sanctioned agenda these days and you will be in big trouble.
I'm not a fan of Tate or anything, but it is sort of related to the above as he has pissed people off in the in the deep state it seems and they wanted him to shut up and follow suit. But they didn't succeed with it so now they shut him up by throwing him to jail.
I haven't digged deep into this subject of Tate so I can't give any full answers....
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EyeBRollin
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Arrogance + opulence + being a foreigner = bad combination
CornbreadFed
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dude openly bragged about it on open platforms lol
Millard Fillmore
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It was never a good idea. One of the dumbest things a person can do is agitate a government. Might as well paint a target on your back. "Rights" don't do any good if a guy is in jail or dead.
I don't know much about Tate either, just speaking generally.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
Well the real big concerning issue here isn't what Tate has done or not done, but more if it can happen to him then it can happen to you and me too in the long run.
We all seen what happened during the "" and also how more and more censorship, surveillance, and so called "hate crime laws" (which can be whatever/anything the gcrazy covid periodovernment thinks/dislikes) that limits freedom of speech; being introduced to society.
We live in very concerning and dangerous times in my opinion.
We all seen what happened during the "" and also how more and more censorship, surveillance, and so called "hate crime laws" (which can be whatever/anything the gcrazy covid periodovernment thinks/dislikes) that limits freedom of speech; being introduced to society.
We live in very concerning and dangerous times in my opinion.
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
Maybe that is exactly why the deep state/governments consider him an issue/threat then because he speaks his mind openly and won't shut up?
Just guessing of course...
Yeah. It’s all made up crap with no proof. They waited until the last second to indict him. If the case of strong then would have indicted him months ago.
EyeBRollin
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If you’re doing shady shvt, keep your mouth shut. Don’t go bragging about it on the internet.
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Was never a fan of Andrew Tate since he grew up pretty peachy and had more of a nerdy vibe and I grew up in Brooklyn and had it pretty fuccin rough..
But, while I dont wish anything bad to happen to that man and I think he is a good force for some young men, It make sme even more grateful for the abundance I continue to receive, because I don't have any businesses where women can turn against me and say I did this or coaxed them into doing that.. Worse thats happened to me is I lost a job because I used the workplace to fork multiple women and one became upset because of the result of it.. that and losing friends in past groups because everyone just thought I was f-ing every chick.
You want to live like Andrew but not have to deal with the sh.t hes dealing with? DOn't be an attention *****, dont start a cam website and coax women into stripping on camera, be in the gym 4-5 days a week, eat tons of protein, start a business that is known to be a good business, some recommendations: office/airbnb cleaning, landscaping, power washing or painting, mobile mechanic, car washing and detailing, etc -- and develop a routine of going to the cluibs every single weekend for a year.. by the 2nd year you should def be starting to get laid.. its all just a process of learning what works.. all the women are already drunk anyways!
But, while I dont wish anything bad to happen to that man and I think he is a good force for some young men, It make sme even more grateful for the abundance I continue to receive, because I don't have any businesses where women can turn against me and say I did this or coaxed them into doing that.. Worse thats happened to me is I lost a job because I used the workplace to fork multiple women and one became upset because of the result of it.. that and losing friends in past groups because everyone just thought I was f-ing every chick.
You want to live like Andrew but not have to deal with the sh.t hes dealing with? DOn't be an attention *****, dont start a cam website and coax women into stripping on camera, be in the gym 4-5 days a week, eat tons of protein, start a business that is known to be a good business, some recommendations: office/airbnb cleaning, landscaping, power washing or painting, mobile mechanic, car washing and detailing, etc -- and develop a routine of going to the cluibs every single weekend for a year.. by the 2nd year you should def be starting to get laid.. its all just a process of learning what works.. all the women are already drunk anyways!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
This.. is very true...
If you are smart you do not flaunt with your wealth and thus attract the wrong people (both male/female etc ofc), into your life (and being in the government's search light too), while having some kind of fame can elevate your business to the next level it also brings next level types of issues and very complex challenges. Focus on building your life instead the smart way.
For example:
When you go to date, dress down a bit like don't wear your daily driver fking rolex watch, but have nice looking Seiko watch or something and don't tell too much to girls. Let them expose themselves instead get to know them before you reveal more serious stuff. Heck tell them your dirt poor, have cheap burner phone/phone number and do not give them your real number before they are worthy of it. Stay under the radar, it will usually serve you good. in these days girls are real stalkers and will try to find out anything and even try to expose you. There are these forums these days where girls check if they date the same dude and also doxx guys.
I even heard of some guys that have like a burner flat (e.g. additional apartment or fvck den if you will
ha ha), so they do not ever take the girl their real place/home until they know more about her.
Fortune_favors_the_bold
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Pushing too much is still better than not pushing enough if you are a young man.
FlirtLife
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Facing rape charges in a court of law is very much about what he has done or not done.
AureliusMaximus
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.