"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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And what does value/social proof mean to a woman?

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Guy A has a lot of friends, a busy social life, and guy B goes straight home from work and plays video games till he goes to bed. How does that translate into Guy A being more desirable? Is it "Guy A must be good in bed because he has lots of friends?" Or "Guy A will provide good financial security because he has lots of friends?" I don't understand what connection women are making because of a guy having friends. Or again is it even something she is aware of on a conscious level like that?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It shows that other people think you have something to offer to them. That you can connect to other people and that you aren't weird or crazy.
 
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Why doesn't the lioness mate with the skinny weak lion who lives by himself under a tree instead of the one who manages a whole pride?

See, instead of playing video games, you should watch nature documentaries. Then you'll learn the game of LIFE.
 
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LonesomeLoser said:
Guy A has a lot of friends, a busy social life, and guy B goes straight home from work and plays video games till he goes to bed. How does that translate into Guy A being more desirable? Is it "Guy A must be good in bed because he has lots of friends?" Or "Guy A will provide good financial security because he has lots of friends?" I don't understand what connection women are making because of a guy having friends. Or again is it even something she is aware of on a conscious level like that?
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Well, first of all most people want to have an enjoyable life. Sitting around watching some douche play video games isn't too exciting. Second, most women *do* have friends unless they are really, really screwed up or married to some stalker. So they care what other people think of the dude(s) they are involved with. Most people in general are highly self-conscious.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Direct answer: It's so her skanky @ss has new meat to beat when she wants to cheat on you.

Namely, the guys in your social circle.

Plus theres a little to do with being more interesting when you have friends...friends = skills and experiences. Experiences = stories = interest = pu$$y.


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Why doesn't the lioness mate with the skinny weak lion who lives by himself under a tree instead of the one who manages a whole pride?
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But what about the stronger, smarter, obviously more superior and virile lion who chooses to stay to himself? The more social one (in human terms) gets the lioness.
 
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on one of these boards i heard a guy reply to a girl who asked...

hb: How do I know you to aren't going to kidnap us?

pua: because axe murderers dont travel in pairs
 
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new screen name, please.
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Agreed. You are who you say you are. Change that name asap.


ps. no loser is loveable except to his mom. :down:
 
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LostAndConfused said:
Direct answer: It's so her skanky @ss has new meat to beat when she wants to cheat on you.

Namely, the guys in your social circle..
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That is soo damn true , something i have been saying for years... women love to F you and all your friends too....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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