"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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And what does value/social proof mean to a woman?

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Guy A has a lot of friends, a busy social life, and guy B goes straight home from work and plays video games till he goes to bed. How does that translate into Guy A being more desirable? Is it "Guy A must be good in bed because he has lots of friends?" Or "Guy A will provide good financial security because he has lots of friends?" I don't understand what connection women are making because of a guy having friends. Or again is it even something she is aware of on a conscious level like that?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It shows that other people think you have something to offer to them. That you can connect to other people and that you aren't weird or crazy.
 
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Why doesn't the lioness mate with the skinny weak lion who lives by himself under a tree instead of the one who manages a whole pride?

See, instead of playing video games, you should watch nature documentaries. Then you'll learn the game of LIFE.
 
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LonesomeLoser said:
Guy A has a lot of friends, a busy social life, and guy B goes straight home from work and plays video games till he goes to bed. How does that translate into Guy A being more desirable? Is it "Guy A must be good in bed because he has lots of friends?" Or "Guy A will provide good financial security because he has lots of friends?" I don't understand what connection women are making because of a guy having friends. Or again is it even something she is aware of on a conscious level like that?
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Well, first of all most people want to have an enjoyable life. Sitting around watching some douche play video games isn't too exciting. Second, most women *do* have friends unless they are really, really screwed up or married to some stalker. So they care what other people think of the dude(s) they are involved with. Most people in general are highly self-conscious.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Direct answer: It's so her skanky @ss has new meat to beat when she wants to cheat on you.

Namely, the guys in your social circle.

Plus theres a little to do with being more interesting when you have friends...friends = skills and experiences. Experiences = stories = interest = pu$$y.


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Why doesn't the lioness mate with the skinny weak lion who lives by himself under a tree instead of the one who manages a whole pride?
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But what about the stronger, smarter, obviously more superior and virile lion who chooses to stay to himself? The more social one (in human terms) gets the lioness.
 
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on one of these boards i heard a guy reply to a girl who asked...

hb: How do I know you to aren't going to kidnap us?

pua: because axe murderers dont travel in pairs
 
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new screen name, please.
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Agreed. You are who you say you are. Change that name asap.


ps. no loser is loveable except to his mom. :down:
 
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LostAndConfused said:
Direct answer: It's so her skanky @ss has new meat to beat when she wants to cheat on you.

Namely, the guys in your social circle..
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That is soo damn true , something i have been saying for years... women love to F you and all your friends too....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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