"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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And so it begins...

Wilko

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The last gasp of desperation at the end of the year - I'm getting about three times the amount of attention online that I normally would.

I know I shouldn't look a gift horse in the mouth, but it does make it rather obvious how lazy they are the rest of the time. Delightful creatures really:)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Wilko said:
The last gasp of desperation at the end of the year - I'm getting about three times the amount of attention online that I normally would.

I know I shouldn't look a gift horse in the mouth, but it does make it rather obvious how lazy they are the rest of the time. Delightful creatures really:)
They prolly get on there for Christmas too. I mean a few more beta orbiters means what? More potential gifts. :flowers:
 

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Yes, female desperation levels rise on Saturday mornings, before summer break and especially around Xmas/NYE. Must be because everybody's harangueing them with those "why is a gorgeous woman like you still single" thing.
Now they will probably just focus on getting a guy, but we as DJs are seeing the bigger picture, improving ourselves and our lives ... enjoy the attention you're getting and carry on. :up:
 

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yea I'm noticing a lot of seasonal desperation around here too

will probably hit meltdown level by mid january ......chicks want what other chicks got
 
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