"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ancestry and DNA Testing

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Some people here may not give a darn whats running through their veins but I have always wondered my ancestry and blood line where it started from where they traveled etc.

Last names give you places of origin and through different marriages and generations there might have been secrets kept because of racist beliefs but DNA will never lie to you from what I hear.

With that in mind I am going to do an ancestry DNA test and being male this will pick up both sides of the family markers I am told.

I saw where actress Eva Longoria the Desparate Housewife star is 3% african.

Anyone here familar with the ancestry DNA test and have you done them how were the results or is it a gimmick?

https://genographic.nationalgeographic.com/genographic/lan/en/participate.html

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I just quickly read through the NG link, and just want to metion that the $99.95 will only test your X or Y chromosome. There is an additional $89 upgrade fee to test the other.

Just wanted to point that out in case you missed it - not saying it isn't worth it or anything.
 

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Thanks Sly6699, glad you pointed that out.

I want the whole pizza with everything included so to speak when I have this done.

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This is nice and all... but we don't have enough DNA samples from the past. I'm not sure how accurate they can make this without digging up and cataloging thousands of cemeteries.
 
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