So we all have this understanding of psychology behing attraction that most guys and even most girls don't have. Is it ever ok to explain this to women? For instance, if I'm talking to a girl and she's pretending to be upset, is it ok to tell her that she's doing it to get me to be nice to her and that once I'm nice she'll loose attraction? Especially the last part of explaining how our relationship will be affected, is this too risky?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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