So we all have this understanding of psychology behing attraction that most guys and even most girls don't have. Is it ever ok to explain this to women? For instance, if I'm talking to a girl and she's pretending to be upset, is it ok to tell her that she's doing it to get me to be nice to her and that once I'm nice she'll loose attraction? Especially the last part of explaining how our relationship will be affected, is this too risky?