"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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theposter

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So we all have this understanding of psychology behing attraction that most guys and even most girls don't have. Is it ever ok to explain this to women? For instance, if I'm talking to a girl and she's pretending to be upset, is it ok to tell her that she's doing it to get me to be nice to her and that once I'm nice she'll loose attraction? Especially the last part of explaining how our relationship will be affected, is this too risky?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Don't waste your time with bad attitudes!!! "Pretending????"
 

COD

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yes.......two rules...DON'T EXPLAIN AND DON'T COMPLAIN.

ATTRACTION IS FLEETING........SAYING STUFF OUT LOUD destroys your chances of it happening.

If you know how attraction works, then why on earth would you alter your actions based upon her reactions.

IGNORE.........continue to escalate never suplicate.

Sheesh........David Deangelo stuff is needed here
 

mrRuckus

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I'll bust on her for it and make it into a joke that portrays that i understand the dynamic at times, but i wouldn't stand there and explain things to her in some calm patronizing manner.

You can't appeal to a woman's logic anyway.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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abcd_z

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Yeah, mrRuckus has it right.

You never verbalize the matrix. Ever.

It never helps, because women are emotional creatures, and that's a logical approach. Read "The Way of the Superior Man", or if you can't get your hands on it, the relationships area of the mASF forum.
 
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