WhitePimp
Master Don Juan
I'm pretty stumped about where it went wrong with this girl. I've nexted her but would like some outside advice on where I messed up. I honestly don't think I fvcked up at all...maybe she just got scared, or a new dude came along, or whatever...but I'm damn confused. Excuse the length, I just wanted to be thorough.
I met her at work, never really talked to her, just BSed every now and then with her. One day she looked real hot so I asked her if she was hungry after work and if she wanted to get food. We eat, she seems cool, so I get the digits. She's extremely shy, and I often confuse this with disinterest (this may be a huge factor in her interest in me but whatever...)
I call her up two days later and ask her out for that night (Wednesday). She agrees and we meet up at work and take my car. We go mini-golfing. (I got lost on the way there so we had tons of time in the car to talk...I DHVed quite a bit and asked her some personal questions. But it was lighthearted the whole time and I learned a lot about her). We play golf, I tease her and encourage her, etc. I do some kino, met with no resistance, and we finish and head back. I stop at a park and we go on some swings for like 15 minutes and just talk (this is my all-time favorite thing to do with a girl...the swings ALWAYS work!!!
) and afterwards I walk up close to her, tell her to "come here" and make out with her. It was awesome. I drive her back, we make out some more, and we go separate ways.
I see her Friday at work when I grab my check and she seems really disinterested. I know she's shy so I give myself the benefit of the doubt and say a quick hi and bye and bail.
I call her up Monday and set something up for that night. She tells me she doesn't know and will call me back later that night. She DOES call me back and she says she can go out. Awesome. We meet up at work again, hug, and head out. We go bowling and she's super hesitant and withdrawn, so I ask her some open ended questions and get her talking again (and kino her a bit). We leave and go get some ice cream. We walk around talking and eating ice cream for a bit and we make out again heavily when we're done. I ask her to watch a movie at my house and she agrees. We lay on my bed and watch the movie and she cuddles up with me. I taunt her a bit to encourage a makeout and we start going at it on my bed. I keep reaching up her shirt but she pulls my hand away. I attempt her pants later on, and her shirt again, all met with resistance...so I give up. It was a second date and I actually respect her for not banging me right away...seems rare nowadays...I drive her back to her car and tell her I'm going to the beach Wednesday and if she wants to come to call me Tuesday. We have a heavy makeout and she goes.
No call from her on Tuesday. On Wednesday afternoon she texts me and says she's sorry but she sick and doesnt want to leave the house. I say "that sucks, it's beautiful down here today" etc. I call her Thursday night and say "I'm going to be busy the next few days, so I want to see you tonite". She says she's still sick, will also be busy the next few days, and doesnt think she should go out that night.....hmmmm....my BS meter is going apesh!t at this point...but whatever.
I see her at work on Friday (check day again) and she does seem a bit sick but I can smell an excuse a mile away. She's standoffish and once again, I give myself the benefit of the doubt and assume she's interested but just shy. I'm busy Friday-Sunday so I text her today and make a joke about hitting on my male manager since she's not there. She texts back amicably. I call her on my break, leave a message, and....nothing yet.
It seems like somewhere between last Monday and Wednesday she completely lost interest. Does anyone see a mistake I don't? I'm not leaving anything out...I'm just curious as hell as to what could've happened since we left our last date a week ago on such great terms. I hate to next this one, but something just doesn't feel right.
I met her at work, never really talked to her, just BSed every now and then with her. One day she looked real hot so I asked her if she was hungry after work and if she wanted to get food. We eat, she seems cool, so I get the digits. She's extremely shy, and I often confuse this with disinterest (this may be a huge factor in her interest in me but whatever...)
I call her up two days later and ask her out for that night (Wednesday). She agrees and we meet up at work and take my car. We go mini-golfing. (I got lost on the way there so we had tons of time in the car to talk...I DHVed quite a bit and asked her some personal questions. But it was lighthearted the whole time and I learned a lot about her). We play golf, I tease her and encourage her, etc. I do some kino, met with no resistance, and we finish and head back. I stop at a park and we go on some swings for like 15 minutes and just talk (this is my all-time favorite thing to do with a girl...the swings ALWAYS work!!!
) and afterwards I walk up close to her, tell her to "come here" and make out with her. It was awesome. I drive her back, we make out some more, and we go separate ways.I see her Friday at work when I grab my check and she seems really disinterested. I know she's shy so I give myself the benefit of the doubt and say a quick hi and bye and bail.
I call her up Monday and set something up for that night. She tells me she doesn't know and will call me back later that night. She DOES call me back and she says she can go out. Awesome. We meet up at work again, hug, and head out. We go bowling and she's super hesitant and withdrawn, so I ask her some open ended questions and get her talking again (and kino her a bit). We leave and go get some ice cream. We walk around talking and eating ice cream for a bit and we make out again heavily when we're done. I ask her to watch a movie at my house and she agrees. We lay on my bed and watch the movie and she cuddles up with me. I taunt her a bit to encourage a makeout and we start going at it on my bed. I keep reaching up her shirt but she pulls my hand away. I attempt her pants later on, and her shirt again, all met with resistance...so I give up. It was a second date and I actually respect her for not banging me right away...seems rare nowadays...I drive her back to her car and tell her I'm going to the beach Wednesday and if she wants to come to call me Tuesday. We have a heavy makeout and she goes.
No call from her on Tuesday. On Wednesday afternoon she texts me and says she's sorry but she sick and doesnt want to leave the house. I say "that sucks, it's beautiful down here today" etc. I call her Thursday night and say "I'm going to be busy the next few days, so I want to see you tonite". She says she's still sick, will also be busy the next few days, and doesnt think she should go out that night.....hmmmm....my BS meter is going apesh!t at this point...but whatever.
I see her at work on Friday (check day again) and she does seem a bit sick but I can smell an excuse a mile away. She's standoffish and once again, I give myself the benefit of the doubt and assume she's interested but just shy. I'm busy Friday-Sunday so I text her today and make a joke about hitting on my male manager since she's not there. She texts back amicably. I call her on my break, leave a message, and....nothing yet.
It seems like somewhere between last Monday and Wednesday she completely lost interest. Does anyone see a mistake I don't? I'm not leaving anything out...I'm just curious as hell as to what could've happened since we left our last date a week ago on such great terms. I hate to next this one, but something just doesn't feel right.