"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Weeuweed

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1 month from now, .... i'll either be alone or still have a relationship with my HB7. The cozz? My insecurity and stupidness... :p

Som1 things about her :

1.) she's a loyal girl when in a relationship.. i saw her quite some times she bailed from her guy friend when probrably sense me being jealosy..

2.)Dont know why but.. We're same school, same class, But .. we seldom interact with each other in class... lol
In class she's probrably the most pretty girl.. so guys usually talk to her...

3.)We've been together for about 7 monthes more or less.. Never been a 'real' date with her before.... lol :D
but we spend time together in my house.... where we make out few times already... :D

4.) Did i mention she's a foreigner... from another country close to my town.. she's living with her very strict aunt here...

5.) I used to called almost everyday... :D back in the day she got no feelings for me :p
During the holidays in december... she called me almost everyday ( her sister that is :p .. a bit mental problem.. )
Her IL still very high... she said once she "won't have a change of heart" <-- abig exaggerated don't u think :p


Here's the sits :

School re-started few days ago...when i first saw her in school in weeks, i had a feeling,
dunno why.. it's like i don't like her anymore... :confused:
So a few days later, i used my good-for-nothing mouth to confront her about it.. i asked her if i lost my feelings for her, would she wanto break?
*what an idiot me* <<-- insecure? :D

While she's making her decision... i reliazed maybe i stilll like her..... *duh.. maybe i have a mental disorder :p *
my poor heart beat so fast when she's about to spill the answer.

*When i asked her if still love me ? she said she hated me for coz my insecurity side always ask this kind of bs.. and she said she enjoyed to be with me.. *

*1 question here.. am i in 'comfort zone' according to
WyldFire's Post *

We finally agreed to breakup for a month which will become permenantly if none of us call it off... means we can get back anytime as long as som1 wants to..
Yesterday i phoned her and ask her "come to my house"
where i intended to makeit up with her....
The answer from her : "need to clean my house coz my house is messsy coz no1 fill in 4 me when i'm sick"
What's this??? Her Game?? she did get sicked btw..

*What i now wanna know is how good my chance to get back with her..? As i do my relationship some harm by being a wussy..
and HOW? what i can think of now is ring her and tell her to come or we break*

*and i olso dun wanna hear any NEXT... i still want this relationship.. i can probrably gointo her '***** ' next time we makeout. :D *:D
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Escalade

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Here's some advice...

Never ever under no circumstances ever refer to her P*ssy as the "forest zone."


Oh, NEXT.
 

mikel

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Forrest zone....?

If you dont like her anymore, then I think the choice is obvious.
 

Weeuweed

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thanks aLot

if u doesnt even wan to give some worthy advise... why waste every1's time?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Weeuweed

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If you dont like her anymore, then I think the choice is obvious.
i probrably still like her....... bah.. i dont know

right now.. i think i gonna wait and see before the 1month period runs out
 

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Maybe you should just get some.. uh... "forest zone"... and then next her cause I dun think u can salvage it unless she's really messed up... Or try last ditch effort and play GG. Oh, and dont listen to what she says, just pay attention to what she does.
 

Canadianpimpology

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Learn to type and format your posts and maybe you'll get better replies. I couldn't understand half of what you said.
 

Mikelo2k

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Some advice...

1. Stop being insecure
2. Stop being stupid

Seems to me like you ****ed up with this girl and i'm guessing if she still feels for you then she will be the one to defuse the breakup.

Good luck young skywalker!


Mikelo2k :cool:
 

wh01987

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dont be a tree hugging hippie and pollute her forest ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Weeuweed

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Originally posted by Canadianpimpology
Learn to type and format your posts and maybe you'll get better replies. I couldn't understand half of what you said.
which 'word' :D u dont understand my friend :D
 

LikRetsam

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quit bumping your post. The fact that its going down the list so fast is reading it so challenging. As the other guy said, take more time typing correctly and in proper enough english.

You like her but you don't. You don't like her but you want the making out. It's that simple. After yuou break up one day you'll be asking for her again because you'll feel you still have feelings blah blah blah. You just want the making out nothing more. This girl means no more than that to you.

Lik
 
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