"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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An updated situition with me. And a question.

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Okay as some of you may know me and this girl has been "talking" to each other if you like to put it that way. I know for a fact that she likes me, but idk. She's but she's either playing hard to get or she or she just loves attention.

Okay so here's the deal. If you don't know my sititution then read the firstpost each these threads.

Thread #1
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=137710

Thread #2
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=138368

Okay so here's the deal. Now I talked to her about the date thing last week and she kept saying that she wanted to go but couldn't. Now I tired to make up another date but she kept trying to get off subject. So I took that as she didn't make up her mind about "us" or she just didn't want to go. So I waited for her to call me. She didn't for a week. So I took it as she didn't want to anything to do with me. So I just forgot about her and moved on. Then today at chruch I noticed she kept looking in my direction with a somewhat frown on her face. So after chruch her "favorite" cousin came over to me acting real nice and friendly. She told me that she's heard so much about me. Then after that she left. So then I noticed she seem mad for some reason. I walked over before I could even say something she walks off. So I'm not gonna chase after no girl so I let her go but I was confuse so I walked over to her later on asked what was up. She seem kinda of serious but kinda of playful with this: "well it's nice to see you too rkc09" "even though you haven't called me in ten years". I told her that she has a phone and my # and if she wanted to talked to me so bad she should of called. She says that I'm a guy, so that means I'm suppose to call her. Then her friends comes over and they continued to talk. While we were talking she keep looking at me and when looked into her eyes she started to smile. Then before she leaves, she gives me a hug. Now I know good and well that she's trying to confuse me(play games). Should I wait for her to call me or should I call her? Was I wrong for not calling her?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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