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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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An updated situition with me. And a question.

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Okay as some of you may know me and this girl has been "talking" to each other if you like to put it that way. I know for a fact that she likes me, but idk. She's but she's either playing hard to get or she or she just loves attention.

Okay so here's the deal. If you don't know my sititution then read the firstpost each these threads.

Thread #1
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=137710

Thread #2
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=138368

Okay so here's the deal. Now I talked to her about the date thing last week and she kept saying that she wanted to go but couldn't. Now I tired to make up another date but she kept trying to get off subject. So I took that as she didn't make up her mind about "us" or she just didn't want to go. So I waited for her to call me. She didn't for a week. So I took it as she didn't want to anything to do with me. So I just forgot about her and moved on. Then today at chruch I noticed she kept looking in my direction with a somewhat frown on her face. So after chruch her "favorite" cousin came over to me acting real nice and friendly. She told me that she's heard so much about me. Then after that she left. So then I noticed she seem mad for some reason. I walked over before I could even say something she walks off. So I'm not gonna chase after no girl so I let her go but I was confuse so I walked over to her later on asked what was up. She seem kinda of serious but kinda of playful with this: "well it's nice to see you too rkc09" "even though you haven't called me in ten years". I told her that she has a phone and my # and if she wanted to talked to me so bad she should of called. She says that I'm a guy, so that means I'm suppose to call her. Then her friends comes over and they continued to talk. While we were talking she keep looking at me and when looked into her eyes she started to smile. Then before she leaves, she gives me a hug. Now I know good and well that she's trying to confuse me(play games). Should I wait for her to call me or should I call her? Was I wrong for not calling her?
 

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