"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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An unexpressive face?

mfd1830

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I started thinking alot about how your face expresses so much about your personality and your potential receptiveness/likeablity. And that's a big deal considering most girls check you out long before they choose to let you notice them.

I have a really unexpressive face; the kind that might convey "don't talk to me". I think alot of it has to do with my bone structure as well as my even keeled emotions; i'm not bubbly nor am I ultra-shy. Anybody ever thought of this and ways to change it? So that the world can kinda see a different side of you that's closer to who you really are? Maybe glasses? The right piercing in the right place?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Craig_87

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Boom... Theres your answer right there.

Im the same, and a good smile goes a long long long way.
 

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Step 1: Look at your face in the mirror.

Step 2: try to feel different emotions and convaying it through your face.

Step 3: Once you found the look you like most, practice the facial expression and emotion all the time until it becomes a part of you.
 

Groovy

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Craig_87 said:
Boom... Theres your answer right there.
Said enough! :p

I notice that when I'm angry, the expression just screams ******* or poor guy. It either makes people pity me or hate me. The eyebrows kind of go down. I've seen it in other people too... Just makes you not want to be around that person.

However if you laugh a little (Force laughter for like 2 minutes to see effects) or do some exercise, your facial expression will be so much more charismatic. (Not to mention the rest of your posture, you'll look much more relaxed). I can't speak for how it looks for you, but for me, it makes me look like much a friendlier guy. And I feel no stress at all- that rocks man!

Perhaps the most awsome thing about this is that it's contagious.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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