"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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An unexpressive face?

mfd1830

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I started thinking alot about how your face expresses so much about your personality and your potential receptiveness/likeablity. And that's a big deal considering most girls check you out long before they choose to let you notice them.

I have a really unexpressive face; the kind that might convey "don't talk to me". I think alot of it has to do with my bone structure as well as my even keeled emotions; i'm not bubbly nor am I ultra-shy. Anybody ever thought of this and ways to change it? So that the world can kinda see a different side of you that's closer to who you really are? Maybe glasses? The right piercing in the right place?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Craig_87

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Boom... Theres your answer right there.

Im the same, and a good smile goes a long long long way.
 

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Step 1: Look at your face in the mirror.

Step 2: try to feel different emotions and convaying it through your face.

Step 3: Once you found the look you like most, practice the facial expression and emotion all the time until it becomes a part of you.
 

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Craig_87 said:
Boom... Theres your answer right there.
Said enough! :p

I notice that when I'm angry, the expression just screams ******* or poor guy. It either makes people pity me or hate me. The eyebrows kind of go down. I've seen it in other people too... Just makes you not want to be around that person.

However if you laugh a little (Force laughter for like 2 minutes to see effects) or do some exercise, your facial expression will be so much more charismatic. (Not to mention the rest of your posture, you'll look much more relaxed). I can't speak for how it looks for you, but for me, it makes me look like much a friendlier guy. And I feel no stress at all- that rocks man!

Perhaps the most awsome thing about this is that it's contagious.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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