"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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An unexpressive face?

mfd1830

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I started thinking alot about how your face expresses so much about your personality and your potential receptiveness/likeablity. And that's a big deal considering most girls check you out long before they choose to let you notice them.

I have a really unexpressive face; the kind that might convey "don't talk to me". I think alot of it has to do with my bone structure as well as my even keeled emotions; i'm not bubbly nor am I ultra-shy. Anybody ever thought of this and ways to change it? So that the world can kinda see a different side of you that's closer to who you really are? Maybe glasses? The right piercing in the right place?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Craig_87

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Boom... Theres your answer right there.

Im the same, and a good smile goes a long long long way.
 

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Step 1: Look at your face in the mirror.

Step 2: try to feel different emotions and convaying it through your face.

Step 3: Once you found the look you like most, practice the facial expression and emotion all the time until it becomes a part of you.
 

Groovy

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Craig_87 said:
Boom... Theres your answer right there.
Said enough! :p

I notice that when I'm angry, the expression just screams ******* or poor guy. It either makes people pity me or hate me. The eyebrows kind of go down. I've seen it in other people too... Just makes you not want to be around that person.

However if you laugh a little (Force laughter for like 2 minutes to see effects) or do some exercise, your facial expression will be so much more charismatic. (Not to mention the rest of your posture, you'll look much more relaxed). I can't speak for how it looks for you, but for me, it makes me look like much a friendlier guy. And I feel no stress at all- that rocks man!

Perhaps the most awsome thing about this is that it's contagious.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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