"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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An Unconscious Behavior About Myself

GQ Prettyboy

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Last week I was talking to my ex-girlfriend and she said when she first met me, that what was so attractive about me was that I carry myself with a sense of arrogance. She said I walk like I`m the sh(i)t and any woman can`t just have me. She said that created challenge for her and lot of other women that was around. So I called up my partna the next day and told him about the conversation and he 100% agreed with my ex. And he also told me that his girlfriend and two of her friends said that I have sense arrogance also. But he told me that it was not bad thing and most women like it. I know most people associate arrogance as a negative trait, but I get along with everybody. I don`t think that I`m better than the next person. You could be a CEO of corporation, or a high school janitor. I will treat you with the same respect. The funny thing is, I am not aware of this behavior. Or maybe they confuse it with self-confidence.

Don`t confuse arrogance with being ****y because I am not that type of person who thinks evreyone is beneath me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don Juanabbe

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It's great with the ladies, but boy does it piss other men off! I've had guys say they wanted to knock my block off before they had actually met me.
 

GQ Prettyboy

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Yeah, I guess it sends a threat to other guys knowing that women respond to the aura of self-confidence. I`m 5`6 and I even had women over 6 feet tall attracted to me. And I didn`t do any pick-up lines or follow any "rules" . When it comes to attraction all that sh(i)t goes out the window. But yeah my friend say I send off an aura of arrogance that attracts women.
 

MrCode

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Guys with no game will be threatened, but other DJs will appreciate your confidence and will probably want to become friends. I'm so sick of seeing AFCs all the time that I'd love to see a cool, confident guy.

I think your attitude is great. I'm the same way with people...doesn't matter who you are, I'll treat you with respect. And I get that respect back.

So keep it up man, and if some lame guys hate on you, forget about them.
 
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