"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Stormblade

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I've been kinda half azzin the DJ thing after my ex
Finally i've gotten out into the field
Anyway, I met this girl we went out, I was all C&F, very funny and outgoing, I didnt kino, didnt kiss - was very much a challenge
Anyway we have another date
I'm like yeah, its your turn to wine and dine me. What you got planned, Shes got this movie she wants to see with me. Shes comin over to my apt and im like well...your gonna have to watch it in my room...your not scared are you?
she laughes so im like damn...girl agreeing to be alone in my room watching a movie...so then im like, and I've got the alcohol if your down...its bad stuff you shouldnt have any...and she laughes
So guys...
Girl alone in my room!
Watching a movie!
Alcohol is involved!
I'm a little worried though, I havent made a move on a girl in months...its gonna be weird goin for the kiss, im sure she'll be down for sex...
Anyone got any tips for a rusty DJ !
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Just use kino and gradually increase it and when she starts loosing interest in the movie you know what todo :p You just got to "feel her" to use a lame term. Kino = important, also make sure you prep the room romantic etc but don't go overboard... Don't get her drunk either. Keep up the work, you def doing good.
 

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Eh.

I play it safe, if she is over there go for a kiss. You will have other chances with her probably, it really depends on if she is a long term or short term investment. If short term get the sex too.
 

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Alright, off-topic, but I've been wondering this for a while. Paid, Laid and Made, did you yoink your username from Evolution, or is it just a coincidence that your username is also a wrestling t-shirt slogan??

And don't ask how I know... I just do...

-Mr. Pink
 

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Sounds like a good time to me bro! I dont have any tips really, except that it will all come to you when its all going on. Dont think about it, just let it flow, and you will do fine. Good luck!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dude doesn't sound like you're too rusty at all. Keep it simple though use some subconcious turnons like a few candles lit and make sure she has nowhere else to sit because I hate it when the stupid chicks will find a side couch and expect you to go sit on that little piece when you two could be on the bed, which is another subconcious hint towards sex. Props on your game so far. Try not to get her drunk, just relaxed, unless you get harshly turned down and it's your last resort- just don't totally bomb it and make it look like you're trying to. Just do you thing and don't puss out when the moment comes!
 

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Yeah guys,
I def gotta go the Kino route
I dont ever see myself getting in any other relationship at least for a year
I want her to be...regular poon, like once a week type deal, she works alot so it shouldnt be hard to date other chicks too
I'm thinkin of gettin her a little buzzed and myself too to take the edge off
I've gotta work the Kino in...then nail the kiss...Then she will be on my bed and anything is game
I have these nice mood lights I hadnt used in my room, I have this huge bed too so its the only place she can sit!
I guess I wanna rush her along because I have this other girl beggin me for a 3some...I refuse to walk into that unprepared, lol
Thanks for the tips though!
 
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