"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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An older woman and possibly a mistake.

the_m@n

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Ok. Need some advice here gents.

Short story. Went to party with cousin and friends. Taxi to cousins, slept in bed with my cousins really close friend after a night of drinking (no kissing, or anything sexual at all). Woke up in the morning intertwined and started giving her a message. She seemed to be liking it but I never moved in for the kiss because her face was turned away from mine. I kind of let my hands wander to her breasts and massaged those too. Random cat came in and jumped on her pillow, scared her and she jumped up and went downstairs. We had breakfast with my cousin and she drove me and another to get my car and his car and I left with a wave goodbye. Did I mess up or should I call her and take her out for a real date? She is 34 and I'm 26 if that helps.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lets see... was the cat more than 51% black?

did the black cat pass in her path (bad luck)?

call her for petes sake! LOL
 

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Joe Stud said:
lets see... was the cat more than 51% black?

did the black cat pass in her path (bad luck)?

call her for petes sake! LOL
:crackup:

OP: damn, dude how could you miss that that night ?!..

call her and ask her out, but BE BOLD, because you already screwed it once.
 

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I think you were on the right track. If you were massaging her and touching her breasts and she didn't pull away, she was clearly enjoying it. Don't worry about her not facing you yet. The kissing would have probably come later after she got more turned on.

Unfortunately, it doesn't take much to ruin the moment and knock the woman out of state. The cat thing was beyond your control. Maybe the door should have been left shut, but it is what it is.

You have nothing to lose by calling her and meeting up for a drink.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think she may have used the cat as an excuse to get out of the situation. Pretended to get startled by the cat. How scary is a cat?
That doesn't mean she doesn't like you or whatever but maybe wasn't quite ready for the sex yet.
 

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Dear Zecko,
Yup I think,you are on the Money,but we shall never really know,that is of course if The M@n doesn't contact her.
 
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zekko said:
I think she may have used the cat as an excuse to get out of the situation. Pretended to get startled by the cat. How scary is a cat?
That doesn't mean she doesn't like you or whatever but maybe wasn't quite ready for the sex yet.
This was what I thought as well. Still worth a shot, OP!
 

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if you slept in the same bed all night, massaged her tits and still haven't got your carrot wet then i think this horse had already bolted.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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