"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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An old truth

Vatican

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There are a lot of techniques out there, and a lot of experience. But all boils down to this old truth:

WOMEN WANT TO BE TAKEN. TAKE THEM.

Women are attracted to men who, easily and smoothly, take them by the hand and lead them to bed. Women want sex and relationships as bad as men do. But unlike men, (most) women cannot go out and take what they want. They have to sit there and pray for a great man to come into their lives. If it's not you, buddy, it'll be someone else.

A man who's afraid to approach girls is a WOMAN. Being afraid to approach the opposite sex is a FEMININE characteristic. Grow some balls, go out there, and give them what they want so badly but could never ask you for.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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THIAGO BRAZIL

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Are you still going to chicken out next opportunity?
 

hedge killa

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FUKKIN A.......WE ALL NEED TO READ THIS AGAIN!!!

I see another DJ who has "got it"!!!!

Take these words to heart fellas and GO GET LAID! hahaha
 

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Tight post, Vatican! You use only a few words to say more than some people in this forum say who have written 10 times as much as you did.

I move to nominate this post for the Discussion Forum Hall of Fame!

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"Fear and fatigue block the mind. Face both, then courage and confidence flow into you." B.K.S. Iyengar


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phuckdeezhos

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Posted by:Vatican
A man who's afraid to approach girls is a WOMAN.

LOL. That's true, and yet so funny.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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And to add to that, take every opportunity to make decisions for them. They hesitate too much and it is easier to just assume choices for them. Believe me when they are forced to make a decision you may not like the outcome. This is why persuasive speech in which you assume an outcome for them makes things easier.
 

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Styles said:
What is this?
Your copyright being stolen BIIIITCH! Haha, oh yeah, you signed your rights away when you clicked yes to the forum guidelines hehe.

Vatican sweet **** man, everybody should listen. They better get it through their thinck heads too, all you AFCs gotta listen up. Read it again, like 20 times until you love hearing the words in your head.

Women hate not being taken. If the girl has to be the source of all the sexual tension she'll eject.
 

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Bonez said:
Your copyright being stolen BIIIITCH! Haha, oh yeah, you signed your rights away when you clicked yes to the forum guidelines hehe.

Vatican sweet **** man, everybody should listen. They better get it through their thinck heads too, all you AFCs gotta listen up. Read it again, like 20 times until you love hearing the words in your head.

Women hate not being taken. If the girl has to be the source of all the sexual tension she'll eject.
LMAO
 

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And suffice it to day, the more promiscuis she is, the quicker she wants to be taken. The less promiscuis, the slower she wants to be taken.

I prefer working up to the 4th quarter, but if i have to drive home in the first will do that too. Naughty girls want to be naughty now. Nice girls want to be naughty later.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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