"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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An old plate has just texted me....

Aesthetix29

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An old plate I was seeing a few months back has just texted me saying

'Hey how r u ?'

So I texted back saying

'Who is it?'

She replied her name and I havnt messaged back yet not sure if I should or not... What do you make of this ?

Is this an ego boost thing or something ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Could be any number of reasons why she's reaching out. Could be ego, attention, she's lonely, etc. Does it really matter? Are you interested in seeing her?
 

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usually means she's in a depressed state could be any given reason most likely after having a heavy weekend partying and is looking for some stable attention from you

its up to you if you want to give it to her but bear in mind she has reached out to you so you currently hold all the cards

in my book its a no lose situation

carry on as you see fit but keep hold of the cards
 

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Well that's what I thought can't really lose so I carried the conversation on for a short while and said that we should have a catchup soon and she replied

'Yes that would be nice x'

I left that message then and I've just replied the day after saying

'Ok sounds good ... I should be free this Saturday? We could do something then! X'

If things progress this is just purely sex no feelings will be involved at all!
Regards
 
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