"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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An Odyssey

Sammo

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As i said, the list was an example.

It isn't the definitve guide to being a DJ, it was just an example. Your goals should be suited to your ambitions and current level.

Lets not turn this in to a masturbating thread, i merely mentioned it b/c it seems to be a popular trend on this board, nothing more.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Im not your mother. Run a search yourself.

But saying you want to increase testosterone by not masterbating you are saying that you want to increase your muscle mass by not stressing your muscles (aka exercise). Youre body develops by counteracting stress. Having deficient testosterone after ejaculating will stimulate your body to produce more. The more your body must produce, the more efficiently it will do so.
No ****, except if you masturbate every day your bodys not gunna have much a chance to build any up. In fact, we can use your analogy... if you work out your muscles nonstop every day your not going to build up anything because you're overworking them

Not to mention this is your claim... you should have the information to support your "study", instead of telling people to find it themselves.
 

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Originally posted by souporman
No ****, except if you masturbate every day your bodys not gunna have much a chance to build any up. In fact, we can use your analogy... if you work out your muscles nonstop every day your not going to build up anything because you're overworking them
You might have a point but this thread calls on people to quit masturbating for 12 weeks so to go back to your analogy,if you quit exercising for 12 weeks,you're not going to be very healthy and i think it's quite clear if you avoid masturbating for 12 weeks it's not healthy.

Sammo,I know you meant well with this thread but surely you must acknowledge that avoiding masturbation for 12 weeks is a bad move?I'm not saying that people have to masturbate every day but 12 weeks seems like a punishment!
 

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Originally posted by Mr.Style
You might have a point but this thread calls on people to quit masturbating for 12 weeks so to go back to your analogy,if you quit exercising for 12 weeks,you're not going to be very healthy and i think it's quite clear if you avoid masturbating for 12 weeks it's not healthy.

Sammo,I know you meant well with this thread but surely you must acknowledge that avoiding masturbation for 12 weeks is a bad move?I'm not saying that people have to masturbate every day but 12 weeks seems like a punishment!
I agree, but the arguement was whether it lowered your testosterone.

Its not too good for the tubes if you hold it in for 12 weeks... gotta get off somehow.
 

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I dont advocate masterbating every day. For your best natural gains - masterbate when ever you are honry.

If you are using testosterone to fuel desire to approach/seduce - lets say you apppch mainly fri and sat... masterbate 1-2 times sat night (after approaching)-tues night.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I tried to stop this from becoming a debate on masturbation, but no luck. :) So i guess ill just have to share my knowledge ;)

Someone said not masturbating for 12 months is a bad move. I disagree. To stop masturbating is a good test of will. I stopped masturbating a long time ago, my boxing coach told me to stop ejaculating full stop. Why? I'm not sure completely. There are a few things i will say however.

Masturbate a minimum of once every 4 days, it takes 4 days for your sperm banks to fill up (6 days if you 20+) and they should be filled for a saturday night (as tony said, tuesday night). Masturbating should be because your horny, not a form of recreation. If your not waking up with morning glory - then your whacking off way to much. Limit it to at least once every 4 days.

Hey, i got an idea, why not just **** girls instead? ;)

NOTE: when masturbating, dont masturbate over your "dream girl" or a girl you dont have, this puts them on a pedestal, masturbate over things you have all ready done with girls.
 

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NOTE: when masturbating, dont masturbate over your "dream girl" or a girl you dont have, this puts them on a pedestal, masturbate over things you have all ready done with girls.

So ****ing important!!!
 
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