"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sammo

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As i said, the list was an example.

It isn't the definitve guide to being a DJ, it was just an example. Your goals should be suited to your ambitions and current level.

Lets not turn this in to a masturbating thread, i merely mentioned it b/c it seems to be a popular trend on this board, nothing more.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Im not your mother. Run a search yourself.

But saying you want to increase testosterone by not masterbating you are saying that you want to increase your muscle mass by not stressing your muscles (aka exercise). Youre body develops by counteracting stress. Having deficient testosterone after ejaculating will stimulate your body to produce more. The more your body must produce, the more efficiently it will do so.
No ****, except if you masturbate every day your bodys not gunna have much a chance to build any up. In fact, we can use your analogy... if you work out your muscles nonstop every day your not going to build up anything because you're overworking them

Not to mention this is your claim... you should have the information to support your "study", instead of telling people to find it themselves.
 

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Originally posted by souporman
No ****, except if you masturbate every day your bodys not gunna have much a chance to build any up. In fact, we can use your analogy... if you work out your muscles nonstop every day your not going to build up anything because you're overworking them
You might have a point but this thread calls on people to quit masturbating for 12 weeks so to go back to your analogy,if you quit exercising for 12 weeks,you're not going to be very healthy and i think it's quite clear if you avoid masturbating for 12 weeks it's not healthy.

Sammo,I know you meant well with this thread but surely you must acknowledge that avoiding masturbation for 12 weeks is a bad move?I'm not saying that people have to masturbate every day but 12 weeks seems like a punishment!
 

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Originally posted by Mr.Style
You might have a point but this thread calls on people to quit masturbating for 12 weeks so to go back to your analogy,if you quit exercising for 12 weeks,you're not going to be very healthy and i think it's quite clear if you avoid masturbating for 12 weeks it's not healthy.

Sammo,I know you meant well with this thread but surely you must acknowledge that avoiding masturbation for 12 weeks is a bad move?I'm not saying that people have to masturbate every day but 12 weeks seems like a punishment!
I agree, but the arguement was whether it lowered your testosterone.

Its not too good for the tubes if you hold it in for 12 weeks... gotta get off somehow.
 

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I dont advocate masterbating every day. For your best natural gains - masterbate when ever you are honry.

If you are using testosterone to fuel desire to approach/seduce - lets say you apppch mainly fri and sat... masterbate 1-2 times sat night (after approaching)-tues night.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I tried to stop this from becoming a debate on masturbation, but no luck. :) So i guess ill just have to share my knowledge ;)

Someone said not masturbating for 12 months is a bad move. I disagree. To stop masturbating is a good test of will. I stopped masturbating a long time ago, my boxing coach told me to stop ejaculating full stop. Why? I'm not sure completely. There are a few things i will say however.

Masturbate a minimum of once every 4 days, it takes 4 days for your sperm banks to fill up (6 days if you 20+) and they should be filled for a saturday night (as tony said, tuesday night). Masturbating should be because your horny, not a form of recreation. If your not waking up with morning glory - then your whacking off way to much. Limit it to at least once every 4 days.

Hey, i got an idea, why not just **** girls instead? ;)

NOTE: when masturbating, dont masturbate over your "dream girl" or a girl you dont have, this puts them on a pedestal, masturbate over things you have all ready done with girls.
 

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NOTE: when masturbating, dont masturbate over your "dream girl" or a girl you dont have, this puts them on a pedestal, masturbate over things you have all ready done with girls.

So ****ing important!!!
 
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