"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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An Odyssey

Sammo

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As i said, the list was an example.

It isn't the definitve guide to being a DJ, it was just an example. Your goals should be suited to your ambitions and current level.

Lets not turn this in to a masturbating thread, i merely mentioned it b/c it seems to be a popular trend on this board, nothing more.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Im not your mother. Run a search yourself.

But saying you want to increase testosterone by not masterbating you are saying that you want to increase your muscle mass by not stressing your muscles (aka exercise). Youre body develops by counteracting stress. Having deficient testosterone after ejaculating will stimulate your body to produce more. The more your body must produce, the more efficiently it will do so.
No ****, except if you masturbate every day your bodys not gunna have much a chance to build any up. In fact, we can use your analogy... if you work out your muscles nonstop every day your not going to build up anything because you're overworking them

Not to mention this is your claim... you should have the information to support your "study", instead of telling people to find it themselves.
 

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Originally posted by souporman
No ****, except if you masturbate every day your bodys not gunna have much a chance to build any up. In fact, we can use your analogy... if you work out your muscles nonstop every day your not going to build up anything because you're overworking them
You might have a point but this thread calls on people to quit masturbating for 12 weeks so to go back to your analogy,if you quit exercising for 12 weeks,you're not going to be very healthy and i think it's quite clear if you avoid masturbating for 12 weeks it's not healthy.

Sammo,I know you meant well with this thread but surely you must acknowledge that avoiding masturbation for 12 weeks is a bad move?I'm not saying that people have to masturbate every day but 12 weeks seems like a punishment!
 

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Originally posted by Mr.Style
You might have a point but this thread calls on people to quit masturbating for 12 weeks so to go back to your analogy,if you quit exercising for 12 weeks,you're not going to be very healthy and i think it's quite clear if you avoid masturbating for 12 weeks it's not healthy.

Sammo,I know you meant well with this thread but surely you must acknowledge that avoiding masturbation for 12 weeks is a bad move?I'm not saying that people have to masturbate every day but 12 weeks seems like a punishment!
I agree, but the arguement was whether it lowered your testosterone.

Its not too good for the tubes if you hold it in for 12 weeks... gotta get off somehow.
 

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I dont advocate masterbating every day. For your best natural gains - masterbate when ever you are honry.

If you are using testosterone to fuel desire to approach/seduce - lets say you apppch mainly fri and sat... masterbate 1-2 times sat night (after approaching)-tues night.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I tried to stop this from becoming a debate on masturbation, but no luck. :) So i guess ill just have to share my knowledge ;)

Someone said not masturbating for 12 months is a bad move. I disagree. To stop masturbating is a good test of will. I stopped masturbating a long time ago, my boxing coach told me to stop ejaculating full stop. Why? I'm not sure completely. There are a few things i will say however.

Masturbate a minimum of once every 4 days, it takes 4 days for your sperm banks to fill up (6 days if you 20+) and they should be filled for a saturday night (as tony said, tuesday night). Masturbating should be because your horny, not a form of recreation. If your not waking up with morning glory - then your whacking off way to much. Limit it to at least once every 4 days.

Hey, i got an idea, why not just **** girls instead? ;)

NOTE: when masturbating, dont masturbate over your "dream girl" or a girl you dont have, this puts them on a pedestal, masturbate over things you have all ready done with girls.
 

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NOTE: when masturbating, dont masturbate over your "dream girl" or a girl you dont have, this puts them on a pedestal, masturbate over things you have all ready done with girls.

So ****ing important!!!
 
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