"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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An observation regarding the declared status of girl on facebook

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In my experience (a number between 50 and 100 met girls n various environment) reading facebook profile of girls, the status they declare is a good item to take in consideration.

Girls which dont fill it up and just leave :

sex: female
interested in: men

but dont fill with either single or in a relationship are a no-go, they in fact most of the cases belong to the attention ***** type wheter they are single or engaged.

The ones which are green light almost always declare themselves as single to show availability, while the ones not filling it are most of the times dating someone or in a relationship yet still hungry for attention, power to reject and various ego boosts.

The ones which declare in a relationship are usually stable and not looking for extra attention, so pay attention to this as well when giving proprity to girls.

Its not similar to our case where we leave it empty to create some mistery and dont have the backfire of being considered single (aka undesired), women dont need this thing and they decide according different reasons.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've actually found the opposite to be true.
IME the crazy points are allocated as follows:

+2: "in a relationship", boyfriend's name is shown
+1: "in a relationship", doesn't say who
0: "single"
-1: not listed

The most stable and sane girls I know never list their relationship status, even when in LTRs, and the more of an AW she is, the more likely she is to tell the world she is dating someone

Guess the real point of this thread is that there's no point looking into this
 

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So you believe you have better chances for action with a girl which put herself in a relationship and names her boyfriend on her profile?

I still believe the safest bet are the girls which are single and list themselves as such openly.
 

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sageproduct is a clueless 20 year old . the OP is right by my estimation.

relationship status =hidden
sluts with suggar daddies never post relationship status. they will appear single to the world.

single
shes on for something. spit your game

in a relationship/no name mentioned
this is a tricky one. it could mean she has a fvckbuddy so all her sex needs are met

in a relationship/ with name mentioned
off limits dont waste your time
 

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Tiguere said:
sageproduct is a clueless 20 year old . the OP is right by my estimation.
Actually, this is one case in which being 20 years old comes in my favor. Who's generation made social media what it is today, b1tches?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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most girls lie on their status about being in a relationship when it has no name next to it
 

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"In a relationship" could mean married (to XXXX), engaged (to XXXX), divorced but back with the ex (who is XXXX), and so on, but she's STILL LOOKING. Poor XXXX!
 

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sageproduct said:
Actually, this is one case in which being 20 years old comes in my favor. Who's generation made social media what it is today, b1tches?
Generations X and Y. Mark Zuckerberg's a bit older than you are.
 

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He's 28.

Facebook didn't hit the mainstream until 3 or 4 years ago though, which by then people his age were out of college and no longer in Facebook's core demographic
 

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what's funny about your post op. is the fact that this stuff is being taking into consideration.

what makes me laugh about this ( i'm not putting you or your post down) if the fact of the Explosion of facebook. people use it like it's the new hip religion.

maybe someone should come up with some "facebook game" and go over profiles. or something.

i had a girl drop me because i gave her access to my profile. so it's a curse
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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They need to have more information boxes the females can check off (i.e. alcoholic, smoker, heroine addict/tweaker, coke-head, daddy issues, abandonment issues, takes it in the a**, adores Taylor Swift).
 

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Packers2010 said:
what's funny about your post op. is the fact that this stuff is being taking into consideration.

what makes me laugh about this ( i'm not putting you or your post down) if the fact of the Explosion of facebook. people use it like it's the new hip religion.

maybe someone should come up with some "facebook game" and go over profiles. or something.

i had a girl drop me because i gave her access to my profile. so it's a curse
agree with this post, the fact a womans relationship status on FB is being discusssed is meaningless. FB is a curse, it caused me probs with 2 LTRS and I wasnt doing anything wrong? women assume you are up to sh!te because they know a lot of peopel on FB are up to sh?!te, especially women. my advice is to ignore the status thing. that can change in the drop of a hat
 

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Guys, wheter you like it or not in 2013 facebook has the power to make or break deals.
 

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sageproduct said:
He's 28.

Facebook didn't hit the mainstream until 3 or 4 years ago though, which by then people his age were out of college and no longer in Facebook's core demographic
So instead we listen to the 20 year old virgin?:crackup:

yeah sure:crackup:

WDW Is on the money
 

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Facebook steals your soul. It's true, look it up.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Purefilth said:
So instead we listen to the 20 year old virgin?:crackup:

yeah sure:crackup:

WDW Is on the money
lets fight
 

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bmxcetera said:
They need to have more information boxes the females can check off (i.e. alcoholic, smoker, heroine addict/tweaker, coke-head, daddy issues, abandonment issues, takes it in the a**, adores Taylor Swift).
I can see it now. I took it up the azz from __ 1+, __10+, __100+ guys. I carpet munched __ 1+, __10+, __100+ gals. I have thoughts of suicide every __ 24+, __6+, __1+ hours.
 

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sageproduct said:
lets fight
Uk south coast, let me know when you get here, ill show you how to beat up some pvssay.

Till then you keep on keepin on.

I'm not allowed to fight people on the internet, I nearly got CAPSLOCKED TO DEATH ONCE!
So mummy told me no more.
 
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