"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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An observation regarding the declared status of girl on facebook

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In my experience (a number between 50 and 100 met girls n various environment) reading facebook profile of girls, the status they declare is a good item to take in consideration.

Girls which dont fill it up and just leave :

sex: female
interested in: men

but dont fill with either single or in a relationship are a no-go, they in fact most of the cases belong to the attention ***** type wheter they are single or engaged.

The ones which are green light almost always declare themselves as single to show availability, while the ones not filling it are most of the times dating someone or in a relationship yet still hungry for attention, power to reject and various ego boosts.

The ones which declare in a relationship are usually stable and not looking for extra attention, so pay attention to this as well when giving proprity to girls.

Its not similar to our case where we leave it empty to create some mistery and dont have the backfire of being considered single (aka undesired), women dont need this thing and they decide according different reasons.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I've actually found the opposite to be true.
IME the crazy points are allocated as follows:

+2: "in a relationship", boyfriend's name is shown
+1: "in a relationship", doesn't say who
0: "single"
-1: not listed

The most stable and sane girls I know never list their relationship status, even when in LTRs, and the more of an AW she is, the more likely she is to tell the world she is dating someone

Guess the real point of this thread is that there's no point looking into this
 

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So you believe you have better chances for action with a girl which put herself in a relationship and names her boyfriend on her profile?

I still believe the safest bet are the girls which are single and list themselves as such openly.
 

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sageproduct is a clueless 20 year old . the OP is right by my estimation.

relationship status =hidden
sluts with suggar daddies never post relationship status. they will appear single to the world.

single
shes on for something. spit your game

in a relationship/no name mentioned
this is a tricky one. it could mean she has a fvckbuddy so all her sex needs are met

in a relationship/ with name mentioned
off limits dont waste your time
 

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Tiguere said:
sageproduct is a clueless 20 year old . the OP is right by my estimation.
Actually, this is one case in which being 20 years old comes in my favor. Who's generation made social media what it is today, b1tches?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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most girls lie on their status about being in a relationship when it has no name next to it
 

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"In a relationship" could mean married (to XXXX), engaged (to XXXX), divorced but back with the ex (who is XXXX), and so on, but she's STILL LOOKING. Poor XXXX!
 

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sageproduct said:
Actually, this is one case in which being 20 years old comes in my favor. Who's generation made social media what it is today, b1tches?
Generations X and Y. Mark Zuckerberg's a bit older than you are.
 

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He's 28.

Facebook didn't hit the mainstream until 3 or 4 years ago though, which by then people his age were out of college and no longer in Facebook's core demographic
 

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what's funny about your post op. is the fact that this stuff is being taking into consideration.

what makes me laugh about this ( i'm not putting you or your post down) if the fact of the Explosion of facebook. people use it like it's the new hip religion.

maybe someone should come up with some "facebook game" and go over profiles. or something.

i had a girl drop me because i gave her access to my profile. so it's a curse
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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They need to have more information boxes the females can check off (i.e. alcoholic, smoker, heroine addict/tweaker, coke-head, daddy issues, abandonment issues, takes it in the a**, adores Taylor Swift).
 

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Packers2010 said:
what's funny about your post op. is the fact that this stuff is being taking into consideration.

what makes me laugh about this ( i'm not putting you or your post down) if the fact of the Explosion of facebook. people use it like it's the new hip religion.

maybe someone should come up with some "facebook game" and go over profiles. or something.

i had a girl drop me because i gave her access to my profile. so it's a curse
agree with this post, the fact a womans relationship status on FB is being discusssed is meaningless. FB is a curse, it caused me probs with 2 LTRS and I wasnt doing anything wrong? women assume you are up to sh!te because they know a lot of peopel on FB are up to sh?!te, especially women. my advice is to ignore the status thing. that can change in the drop of a hat
 

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Guys, wheter you like it or not in 2013 facebook has the power to make or break deals.
 

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sageproduct said:
He's 28.

Facebook didn't hit the mainstream until 3 or 4 years ago though, which by then people his age were out of college and no longer in Facebook's core demographic
So instead we listen to the 20 year old virgin?:crackup:

yeah sure:crackup:

WDW Is on the money
 

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Facebook steals your soul. It's true, look it up.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Purefilth said:
So instead we listen to the 20 year old virgin?:crackup:

yeah sure:crackup:

WDW Is on the money
lets fight
 

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bmxcetera said:
They need to have more information boxes the females can check off (i.e. alcoholic, smoker, heroine addict/tweaker, coke-head, daddy issues, abandonment issues, takes it in the a**, adores Taylor Swift).
I can see it now. I took it up the azz from __ 1+, __10+, __100+ guys. I carpet munched __ 1+, __10+, __100+ gals. I have thoughts of suicide every __ 24+, __6+, __1+ hours.
 

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lets fight
Uk south coast, let me know when you get here, ill show you how to beat up some pvssay.

Till then you keep on keepin on.

I'm not allowed to fight people on the internet, I nearly got CAPSLOCKED TO DEATH ONCE!
So mummy told me no more.
 
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