SnatchJP
Senior Don Juan
Okay, I'm a high school senior, headed for Prom. I'm single right at the moment.
There is a girl in my school, also a senior from taiwan. (Lets call her Ramay for the purposes of this post.) I don't know her much past the saying "hi" in the halls stage at the moment, but , she's pretty darn attractive. I may be imagining the buying signals I'm getting, but I know she's not sending any negative vibes.
Point is, I was planning on getting to know Ramay a bit better and then asking her to prom. I've already let another Taiwanese friend (a guy) in on the plan, and he's excited and has been asking me when I'm planning on making moves.
So here I am, all prepared to ask out Ramay, when out of the blue my mom gets a phone call from a friend of hers.
Flashback: This friend of hers throws a christmas tree trimming party every year. We went last December, as we have on other years (I'm also good friends with her son, pete). Anyway, I've met yet another pretty hot girl (lets call her Anne) who also showed some very subtle buying signals (leans, glances, lip-biting, you guys know the deal) but I didn't get the digits because I thought my buddy pete had his eye on her. (Later I found out I was wrong. Turns out they've been friends for too long and can't bring themselves to think of each other that way).
Back to the present. My mom gets the phone call when out of the blue her friend mentions that Anne is still talking about me.
This throws me a loop. A bad one. Prom is May 15th. Ramay is possibly waiting to be asked (I don't know if someone has told her or not) while Anne is still displaying strong interest after seeing me once more than four months ago! To complicate matters further, the physics classes are going on an overnight trip all of next week. I'm coming. Ramay may or may not be coming, I don't know. She may be going on another trip.
I want to get to know each girl more before I choose. Ramay is easy, (comparitivley) but Anne will be hard. I haven't seen or talked to pete since december, and I've lost his number. I feel a little weird about contacting her through parents of friends. We're in the same neighborhood, she's about 15-20 blocks away. (urban neighborhoods, go figure).
I actually have a pretty good idea of a plan of action, but I want some opinions from the experts here. You all have experience and a lot theory, and I like to hear second opinions.
So, in my position, what would you do?
There is a girl in my school, also a senior from taiwan. (Lets call her Ramay for the purposes of this post.) I don't know her much past the saying "hi" in the halls stage at the moment, but , she's pretty darn attractive. I may be imagining the buying signals I'm getting, but I know she's not sending any negative vibes.
Point is, I was planning on getting to know Ramay a bit better and then asking her to prom. I've already let another Taiwanese friend (a guy) in on the plan, and he's excited and has been asking me when I'm planning on making moves.
So here I am, all prepared to ask out Ramay, when out of the blue my mom gets a phone call from a friend of hers.
Flashback: This friend of hers throws a christmas tree trimming party every year. We went last December, as we have on other years (I'm also good friends with her son, pete). Anyway, I've met yet another pretty hot girl (lets call her Anne) who also showed some very subtle buying signals (leans, glances, lip-biting, you guys know the deal) but I didn't get the digits because I thought my buddy pete had his eye on her. (Later I found out I was wrong. Turns out they've been friends for too long and can't bring themselves to think of each other that way).
Back to the present. My mom gets the phone call when out of the blue her friend mentions that Anne is still talking about me.
This throws me a loop. A bad one. Prom is May 15th. Ramay is possibly waiting to be asked (I don't know if someone has told her or not) while Anne is still displaying strong interest after seeing me once more than four months ago! To complicate matters further, the physics classes are going on an overnight trip all of next week. I'm coming. Ramay may or may not be coming, I don't know. She may be going on another trip.
I want to get to know each girl more before I choose. Ramay is easy, (comparitivley) but Anne will be hard. I haven't seen or talked to pete since december, and I've lost his number. I feel a little weird about contacting her through parents of friends. We're in the same neighborhood, she's about 15-20 blocks away. (urban neighborhoods, go figure).
I actually have a pretty good idea of a plan of action, but I want some opinions from the experts here. You all have experience and a lot theory, and I like to hear second opinions.
So, in my position, what would you do?
