“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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An interesting convo with a girl yesterday

Zman1

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To make a long story short I was having a convo with a 20 year old woman. We were talking about dating and such. Keep in mind I am not interested in this girl anymore than friends.

What I have found out is that women are born with the ability to flirt, and play the dating game to a TEE! They assume we know everything on how to act, what to say and so forth. She was so suprised that most men need to read up on sites like this, need coaching, or practice to perfect our skills. All she said is that girls always have dating/courtship sense. They are born that way and most men arent.

I opened up her eyes when explaining that most men have no clue what works until they do trial and error to perfect their skills.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wavejams007

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You are only getting one perspective though. I can garantee that she, as well as most other girls, most likely did not know all about dating just as a natural.How else do women end up with men who abuse them? IF they had this "sense" you speak of, then they wouldn't put themselves in bad situations because they would be able to decipher which men are safe and which men are not, although some are well disguised. I think that women can be very idealistic, as well as men. Women tend to know a little more though because they spend so much of their time talking about dating and such. Personally, I sometimes like to talk about dating, but most of the time Iprefer goofing off with the guys or talking about sports or something.
 

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If women had a "natural dating sence" they wouldn't waste so much money on crappy magazines and 9 out of 10 dating books wouldn't be written for women. You should've called her on her BS. Women are just as bad, if not worse, than men at dating.
 

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No dude, women or men arent born with anything like that. Culture and society is what impacts what she's talking about. All this DJ crap all of a sudden means absolutely nothing if you try dating a Religous chick.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Zman1
To make a long story short I was having a convo with a 20 year old woman. We were talking about dating and such. Keep in mind I am not interested in this girl anymore than friends.

What I have found out is that women are born with the ability to flirt, and play the dating game to a TEE! They assume we know everything on how to act, what to say and so forth. She was so suprised that most men need to read up on sites like this, need coaching, or practice to perfect our skills. All she said is that girls always have dating/courtship sense. They are born that way and most men arent.

I opened up her eyes when explaining that most men have no clue what works until they do trial and error to perfect their skills.
All of this is absolutely true about what women assume that we know. My question is why you felt a need to go further and tell her about sites like Sosuave. Understand that I'm not concerned about women infiltrating our sacred coven (its been done already :p), I'm just curious because understand your frame in going beyond just telling her that most guys are clueless.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Women are 50/50 like men when it comes to determining if the opposite sex likes them or not. However, women are better deal using their mind with emotions than men are, but it still doesn't make them better.
 
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