"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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An interesting convo with a girl yesterday

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To make a long story short I was having a convo with a 20 year old woman. We were talking about dating and such. Keep in mind I am not interested in this girl anymore than friends.

What I have found out is that women are born with the ability to flirt, and play the dating game to a TEE! They assume we know everything on how to act, what to say and so forth. She was so suprised that most men need to read up on sites like this, need coaching, or practice to perfect our skills. All she said is that girls always have dating/courtship sense. They are born that way and most men arent.

I opened up her eyes when explaining that most men have no clue what works until they do trial and error to perfect their skills.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You are only getting one perspective though. I can garantee that she, as well as most other girls, most likely did not know all about dating just as a natural.How else do women end up with men who abuse them? IF they had this "sense" you speak of, then they wouldn't put themselves in bad situations because they would be able to decipher which men are safe and which men are not, although some are well disguised. I think that women can be very idealistic, as well as men. Women tend to know a little more though because they spend so much of their time talking about dating and such. Personally, I sometimes like to talk about dating, but most of the time Iprefer goofing off with the guys or talking about sports or something.
 
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If women had a "natural dating sence" they wouldn't waste so much money on crappy magazines and 9 out of 10 dating books wouldn't be written for women. You should've called her on her BS. Women are just as bad, if not worse, than men at dating.
 
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No dude, women or men arent born with anything like that. Culture and society is what impacts what she's talking about. All this DJ crap all of a sudden means absolutely nothing if you try dating a Religous chick.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Zman1
To make a long story short I was having a convo with a 20 year old woman. We were talking about dating and such. Keep in mind I am not interested in this girl anymore than friends.

What I have found out is that women are born with the ability to flirt, and play the dating game to a TEE! They assume we know everything on how to act, what to say and so forth. She was so suprised that most men need to read up on sites like this, need coaching, or practice to perfect our skills. All she said is that girls always have dating/courtship sense. They are born that way and most men arent.

I opened up her eyes when explaining that most men have no clue what works until they do trial and error to perfect their skills.
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All of this is absolutely true about what women assume that we know. My question is why you felt a need to go further and tell her about sites like Sosuave. Understand that I'm not concerned about women infiltrating our sacred coven (its been done already :p), I'm just curious because understand your frame in going beyond just telling her that most guys are clueless.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Women are 50/50 like men when it comes to determining if the opposite sex likes them or not. However, women are better deal using their mind with emotions than men are, but it still doesn't make them better.
 
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