“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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An important consideration for a successful relationship

Jariel

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This is just a brief tip for those interested in relationships.

The most important factors in a successful relationship are the two people involved - namely their chemistry and whether they share the same relationship values. Aside from mutual attraction, both partners must want the same things out of their relationship. If only one is serious about a relationship it is destined to fail from the outset.

It sounds like common sense, right? However, this is one of the most common problems men (and women) face when seeking a relationship. Instead of trying to find the right person for a relationship, they cling to the wrong person and try to change them. Or even worse, they try to change themselves to fit the other person's ideals.

I did this many times and failed, and was always left hurt and disappointed. Then I wisened up, started dating a lot of women, spent time learning about them and if they didn't meet my criteria, I nexted them. Eventually I found one who did meet my standards (my current girlfriend). Actually I met 3 potential girlfriends and kept dating them until one came out above the others.

Even if you are seeking a serious relationship and not into playing the field, you need to keep your options open and continue dating. Never pin your hopes on one girl until she proves herself.

You can't mould a slvt into a faithful wife!

You can't turn a feminist into a damsel!

You can't turn a cold hearted b1tch into a romantic lover!

If the girl you are with doesn't fit your ideals, next her and keep looking. All that futile time you spend trying to mould and manipulate the wrong girl could be used constructively seeking the right girl. It's really that simple!
 

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Even if I'm not getting any woman for now, I totally agree with you Jariel
 

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Jariel said:
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You can't turn a feminist into a damsel!
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Maybe not a damsel, but you can turn a feminist around a little bit.
It's not worth the effort, but it's doable. ;)
 

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I've been thinking a lot about nexting my gf...
She doesn't dance.
I do. I like it.
I like adrenaline...
she is not that into...but I know that if I take her hand she would follow me to a bungee.. :p
I love exercising...she is not that into, but like in the case of the bungee if I take her to walk or jog she would come...
Opinions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Rata I think basic likes and interests are kinda trivial. I think what Jariel is talking about is whether or not what you want from the relationship is similar, not if you listen to the same music and whatnot.
 

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Good post as always there Jariel.

So tell me, were you banging all three potential girlfriend chics at the same time? You're around my age and while things have changed a bit in the last 10 years (there was more commitment even 10 yrs. ago), did each of these girls know you were dating the others?

The concept of being just friends with a girl that you want to bang or even date early while not doing anything is harder one for me to grasp.

If i'm correct, i just answered my own question to you then ..lol. I remember in another post you talked about just evaluating and not worrying about sex, just having fun (or was that you?).
 

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tmpgstx said:
So tell me, were you banging all three potential girlfriend chics at the same time? You're around my age and while things have changed a bit in the last 10 years (there was more commitment even 10 yrs. ago), did each of these girls know you were dating the others?
I was just casually dating them to begin with, just going for drinks, lunch or meeting at club, and these weren't the sort of girls who would have sex outside of a relationship. We kissed and made out, but nothing beyond that. They all knew I was spending time with the others, but didn't really know what context, and I wasn't "official" with any of them at the same time.

The concept of being just friends with a girl that you want to bang or even date early while not doing anything is harder one for me to grasp.

If i'm correct, i just answered my own question to you then ..lol. I remember in another post you talked about just evaluating and not worrying about sex, just having fun (or was that you?).

Yep that was me! :)

I really do enjoy dating, even without sex and since I'm more of a relationship guy, I try to spend time evaluating women before I get involved or have sex with them (best way to avoid b1tches and also STDs). Plus as I said above, the women I go for aren't usually the type to have sex after a few casual dates, which is something important to me in terms of a LTR prospect.

As for being friends with girls first, it's really not so bad as long as you are choosing to be friends. I like to think of the friendship phase as my chance to get to know her and screen her. I flirt like crazy though! I think this is vitally important to avoid becoming her gal pal or platonic friend, plus it keeps them guessing and builds the attraction.

Anyway, thanks for the feedback mate!
 

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100th post! W00t!!!!

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