"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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-an Idea That Could Improve And Change This Site-

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require a test to be let into this board.

certain questions that could be known by reading the bible

that way 1/2 the stupid repetitive questions that get asked by useless, dumb, and espically lazy people would not be asked.

hence, saving us all time and stopping the downhill travel this board seems to be taking
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by drixsa
that way 1/2 the stupid repetitive questions that get asked by useless, dumb, and espically lazy people would not be asked.
Hahaha!

Do you have any idea how many times the very same question you just asked, has been asked?

Mr. Mystery
 

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I hate to "big up" the new book due for release within the week, but I'm hoping that it would be the best resource of only a hundred pages for such guys. I'm also inserting the FAQ into the DJB.

Nick
 

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Re: Re: -an Idea That Could Improve And Change This Site-

Originally posted by Mr. Mystery
Hahaha!

Do you have any idea how many times the very same question you just asked, has been asked?

Mr. Mystery
No. How many?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Look up "master's forum" alot of good replies to this sort of thing have been put there.
 

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Originally posted by drixsa
require a test to be let into this board.

certain questions that could be known by reading the bible
The bible is only a guideline, its not sometihng you follow blindly. I do a LOT of tings which would seem to completely contradict some parts of the DJB.

However, I make them work, and they work well for me.

However a test consisting of the many same questions being asked here everyday would be beneficial.

Question #1: What do I do if a girl likes me?
#2 : How many days to wait before I call her?
#3 : How can I get this one girl...?

etc. etc. etc.
 

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Or a "test" to receive permissions to enter different forums. Perhaps a forumwide test that tells you what forums would be best for you. Or disable users with 10 or less posts from replying to threads not started by themselves. DJism blasphemy: the DJ Bible is horrible. It teaches techniques rather than state of mind, philosophy, and living the DJ life. :eek:
 
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