pimpaholic
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ohhhh ok, good catch - i didnt read his post history ur right
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Wow. You really do like jerking off?chance- said:i don't want a woman if you have been reading. i'm quite happy with my hand at the moment.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
holy sh!t. i swear most of you guys are really fuking blind ain't ya? what fuking game ? i wasnt "gaming" her you sh!thead. once again, stop fuking seeing this as me trying to get into her pants. it was an online chat not a fuking picking up session. got it?DJVladdy said:This convo was pathetic
notice how each part of the chat you started AND you ended. Meaning she did not care enough to talk to u, or care enough to continue.
This means you care more than she does
Yes you were trying to get in her pants, at least judging from the convo
You handed ur balls to her, she chopped them up and send them to ur mom - and u just smiled at that.
U put up with unaccepable behavior/insults from a bytch
Her frame is stronger than urs
Conclusion: never do this to yourself again, u will destroy your game this way.
P.S. all of u should check out the pod casts on theplayersupremeshow.com
he would shoot u for even typing pathetic crap like that
Why are you letting her burn you? your just letting her get her kicks off some ******* on the internet. No offense, but your acting like a big AFC.chance- said:the funny thing here is you all think i CARE that she is walking all over me. i know she is and i know she burnt me several times. i let her do this over an over.
Get what out of her? Seems like she is the one harassing you... see conversationi want to keep harassing her to get it all out of her.
Why would you EVER want to pick up a girl like this?if i wanted to pick her up i wouldn't be on msn... i'd be at the night clubs she was at.
"extra friendly"...is that what they call it nowadays? Forget she's hot for a minute then read the conversation, why would you want to talk to someone like this?i wasn't kissing her ass as the way you say it. i was just being a little extra friendly but also not sucking her fingers. and yes, her being hot is what actually makes me message her. i admit it all because i'm not lying about it.
Sounds to me like your supplicatingi really don't care how AFC i'm acting... like i said, i'm not trying to pick her up. i'm saying anything and everything to her.
This makes sense, but this isn't a normal girl...therefore she doesn't represent the female sex very well. I hope you really believe she is nothing more than a rat for your own sake...i like to do all the WHAT IF'S that guys think of saying to girls and wonder what their reaction will be. like pimp said. she is a RAT and nothing more to me.
Why don't you want these girls?IF I WANT A GIRL, I ALREADY HAVE TWO WAITING FOR ME AND HARASSING ME DAILY TO GET MY ATTENTION. believe it or not.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.