pimpaholic
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ohhhh ok, good catch - i didnt read his post history ur right
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Wow. You really do like jerking off?chance- said:i don't want a woman if you have been reading. i'm quite happy with my hand at the moment.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
holy sh!t. i swear most of you guys are really fuking blind ain't ya? what fuking game ? i wasnt "gaming" her you sh!thead. once again, stop fuking seeing this as me trying to get into her pants. it was an online chat not a fuking picking up session. got it?DJVladdy said:This convo was pathetic
notice how each part of the chat you started AND you ended. Meaning she did not care enough to talk to u, or care enough to continue.
This means you care more than she does
Yes you were trying to get in her pants, at least judging from the convo
You handed ur balls to her, she chopped them up and send them to ur mom - and u just smiled at that.
U put up with unaccepable behavior/insults from a bytch
Her frame is stronger than urs
Conclusion: never do this to yourself again, u will destroy your game this way.
P.S. all of u should check out the pod casts on theplayersupremeshow.com
he would shoot u for even typing pathetic crap like that
Why are you letting her burn you? your just letting her get her kicks off some ******* on the internet. No offense, but your acting like a big AFC.chance- said:the funny thing here is you all think i CARE that she is walking all over me. i know she is and i know she burnt me several times. i let her do this over an over.
Get what out of her? Seems like she is the one harassing you... see conversationi want to keep harassing her to get it all out of her.
Why would you EVER want to pick up a girl like this?if i wanted to pick her up i wouldn't be on msn... i'd be at the night clubs she was at.
"extra friendly"...is that what they call it nowadays? Forget she's hot for a minute then read the conversation, why would you want to talk to someone like this?i wasn't kissing her ass as the way you say it. i was just being a little extra friendly but also not sucking her fingers. and yes, her being hot is what actually makes me message her. i admit it all because i'm not lying about it.
Sounds to me like your supplicatingi really don't care how AFC i'm acting... like i said, i'm not trying to pick her up. i'm saying anything and everything to her.
This makes sense, but this isn't a normal girl...therefore she doesn't represent the female sex very well. I hope you really believe she is nothing more than a rat for your own sake...i like to do all the WHAT IF'S that guys think of saying to girls and wonder what their reaction will be. like pimp said. she is a RAT and nothing more to me.
Why don't you want these girls?IF I WANT A GIRL, I ALREADY HAVE TWO WAITING FOR ME AND HARASSING ME DAILY TO GET MY ATTENTION. believe it or not.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.