"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey guys, I've been reading these forums off and on for awhile now and I don't post that often.

Anyways, I recently got a job and being a student living with the parents, don't really have any *big* expenses. ($20 for internet, $30 a month for gym, $50 every two months or so for protein powder, etc) Nothing big.

I currently have several objectives for my money. Two of them being;
1) A Camera-Cellphone
2) A Digicam

With the aid of these I will be setting up a blog-type thing for myself. With the title being something along the lines of "Aspiring Don Juan - The Chronicles" or something *bad ass* (rolls eyes) like that.

Anyways, I was just wondering if anyone could give a recommendation on where I might host such a thing. At the moment I have a DJ Journal of sorts, where I basically send long-winded emails to myself in Gmail but it's just not the same as what I have in mind.

What I'd *like* to do is set up an area that introduces (with photographs) the girls I am currently *working on*, vital statistics (no personal information though) and personal thoughts/comments on them. Probably blur out their eyes/heads so people can't easily recognize them.

However I was wondering where I might set up/host such a thing. Any suggestions?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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blogs or sosuave.net;)

everything else is secondary and is out of date. You can pay for membership at yahoo geocities or other "website" building sites and you get your own .com site.
 
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because as soon as one of the girls gets onto it and you've posted one wrong observation without a proper disclaimer you will be faced with a lawsuit:)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tred carefully

Make sure it is legal to record wherever this takes place. Get permission for the person(s) involved.

I think sound recording the event, followed by asking her for permission would probably fly just fine in this case of a non-commercial venture. You can always trash anything that you cannot later obtain permission to distribute. No telephone lines, please.

The non-authorized recordings should not be posted anywhere. Listen to them for critique and trash them immediatly just to be safe. I'm not a legal expert and I have no idea what the laws require.

I think a camcorder might be a bit much and hard to disguise :) Additionally, a long winded journal isn't something a successful player has time to read/evaluate. I'd suggest using a standard form to track each approach.

You can then study the times and dates, rating of female, and other patterns for results. Just remember that unless you are completely honest in your paperwork, your results won't be worth the paper they're written on.
 
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