Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hey guys, I've been reading these forums off and on for awhile now and I don't post that often.

Anyways, I recently got a job and being a student living with the parents, don't really have any *big* expenses. ($20 for internet, $30 a month for gym, $50 every two months or so for protein powder, etc) Nothing big.

I currently have several objectives for my money. Two of them being;
1) A Camera-Cellphone
2) A Digicam

With the aid of these I will be setting up a blog-type thing for myself. With the title being something along the lines of "Aspiring Don Juan - The Chronicles" or something *bad ass* (rolls eyes) like that.

Anyways, I was just wondering if anyone could give a recommendation on where I might host such a thing. At the moment I have a DJ Journal of sorts, where I basically send long-winded emails to myself in Gmail but it's just not the same as what I have in mind.

What I'd *like* to do is set up an area that introduces (with photographs) the girls I am currently *working on*, vital statistics (no personal information though) and personal thoughts/comments on them. Probably blur out their eyes/heads so people can't easily recognize them.

However I was wondering where I might set up/host such a thing. Any suggestions?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Boner da Stoner

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blogs or sosuave.net;)

everything else is secondary and is out of date. You can pay for membership at yahoo geocities or other "website" building sites and you get your own .com site.
 

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because as soon as one of the girls gets onto it and you've posted one wrong observation without a proper disclaimer you will be faced with a lawsuit:)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tred carefully

Make sure it is legal to record wherever this takes place. Get permission for the person(s) involved.

I think sound recording the event, followed by asking her for permission would probably fly just fine in this case of a non-commercial venture. You can always trash anything that you cannot later obtain permission to distribute. No telephone lines, please.

The non-authorized recordings should not be posted anywhere. Listen to them for critique and trash them immediatly just to be safe. I'm not a legal expert and I have no idea what the laws require.

I think a camcorder might be a bit much and hard to disguise :) Additionally, a long winded journal isn't something a successful player has time to read/evaluate. I'd suggest using a standard form to track each approach.

You can then study the times and dates, rating of female, and other patterns for results. Just remember that unless you are completely honest in your paperwork, your results won't be worth the paper they're written on.
 

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