"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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An HB9!?!?

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jordannkobe11

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So im new at this school. But we started about a month ago and there are these two HO9's easy, they are also easy! But anyways by bestfriend is decent friends with them but by no means is he a DJ, hes too nice. (so am i but im in DJ training). But since ive seen them around and made eye contact with them Im not thinkin a cold approach wpould be the best idea??? Ive only been on this site for the last 3 days so im digesting alot of info fast or atleast trying to. So ANY tips or feedback would be greatly appreciated!
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You have 2 options:

1) Cold Approach them. Open the set with "Hey, whats up, I noticed your friends with (your friends name here)!"....Be slightly more energetic than they are. Most likely they will respond "Yeah, we are freinds with him," which in return you can respond "How do you know eachother" and from there you can do anything.

2) Have your friend introduce them to you. This may be a good idea because it will establish social proof. Since your new this route may be better off, that to do a cold approach

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