"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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An HB9!?!?

jordannkobe11

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So im new at this school. But we started about a month ago and there are these two HO9's easy, they are also easy! But anyways by bestfriend is decent friends with them but by no means is he a DJ, hes too nice. (so am i but im in DJ training). But since ive seen them around and made eye contact with them Im not thinkin a cold approach wpould be the best idea??? Ive only been on this site for the last 3 days so im digesting alot of info fast or atleast trying to. So ANY tips or feedback would be greatly appreciated!
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Smooth Player 056

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You have 2 options:

1) Cold Approach them. Open the set with "Hey, whats up, I noticed your friends with (your friends name here)!"....Be slightly more energetic than they are. Most likely they will respond "Yeah, we are freinds with him," which in return you can respond "How do you know eachother" and from there you can do anything.

2) Have your friend introduce them to you. This may be a good idea because it will establish social proof. Since your new this route may be better off, that to do a cold approach

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