an FB that see's me as a friend?

[sav]

i dont get it...

there's this one girl that comes over about once or so a week, talks about her problems, this and that, and then we ****...

now this is a girl in a relationship and **** so she talks bout her problems etc, and then things progress and almost every time we end up ****ing..

now my question is,
whats up with that?

i thought that if a girl does that, you've been friended, and you wont get any action...

i guess there's an exception to everything..

 

[Babnik]

Its not an exception, its normal. Girls like to talk about themselves and they do like guys who pay them this kind of attention.

Even my roommate and friend listen to girls whine and then proceed to f*ck them.

 

[bigjohnson]

You don't want to be her girlfriend. Sort of a different thing.

 

[sav]

good reply guys,

thanks for clearing that one up for me

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

These are cases where you got to draw a line in the sand between pure game and looks. Clearly by gaming standards, getting a girl to talk about her problems to you is generally accepted as a VERY BAD move.

Why the discrepancy? Well what these "seduction gurus" who are out for your money will not tell you, or will try to significantly downplay, is PHYSICAL ATTRACTION. WOW!? What a concept! Whoever thought that girls are not blind machines that you type in C+F lines and techniques into and get out whatever result you want!?

A girl that talks about her problems to a guy that SHE finds physically attractive = more than "just a friend"

A girl that talks about her problems to a guy that SHE does NOT find physically attractive = just a friend

In the end it is a convenient way for the girl to rationalize her actions and not look shallow/slutty. For example:

Not getting into a relationship with the "ugly friend" ---> "I don't want to ruin the 'friendship'" (so she's not shallow )

Having sex with the attractive "friend" ---> "Well I've known him for a while. So I'm not a slut."


Sorry guys, but girls care about looks too. You can't explain everything by game alone. LOOKS MATTER. Yeah I said it. Big fuvking shock.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

By the way, I am not just BS'ing stuff off the type of my head. I have a female FRIEND (hehe) who is in the same situation. She talks about her problems to one guy she doesn't find physically attractive and does the same exact thing to the another guy that she DOES find physically attractive. They're both AFC's. Neither has much game at all, if any. However, just take a wild guess at who she's more interested in sleeping with.

 

[sav]

yeah...

only thing is i havent been able to progress it further then just an FB situation.... she's not interested in anything more.. yet i am... but im not gonna push it...

its just weird

if she finds me physically attractive, somebody that she can share her feelings with etc why not progress it further?

oh well, i'll keep spinning plates

 

[ExploringOne]

yeah...

only thing is i havent been able to progress it further then just an FB situation.... she's not interested in anything more.. yet i am... but im not gonna push it...

its just weird

if she finds me physically attractive, somebody that she can share her feelings with etc why not progress it further?

oh well, i'll keep spinning plates

Personally, I don't know why you would want to progress from an FB relatioship. I used to f*ck a girl in college, similar situation, she would come over, b*tch about life for a while, then we f*ck, no strings attached...

What more can you ask for?

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

yeah...

only thing is i havent been able to progress it further then just an FB situation.... she's not interested in anything more.. yet i am... but im not gonna push it...

its just weird

if she finds me physically attractive, somebody that she can share her feelings with etc why not progress it further?

oh well, i'll keep spinning plates

By being a FB in the first place...she is basically showing you that she is not girlfriend material. Why WOULD you want to progress things forward with a slut? Cause that's what she is. Sluts have FB relationships, NOT girls who are girlfriend material.

 

[sav]

i guess both of you have a point....

 

[Jay Jay]

The B*tch Always Falls.

Sav, my man, you are real close to stepping out of the matrix. Just don't listen to these guys saying she's a slut. Figure out how you've pulled off this feat and you'll be swimming in *****.

Anyway, I have a warning.

I had a FB for about ten years. We wouldn't shag when either of us were in a commited relationship, but we'd always shag when we were both single or dating.

We'd even talk about the other people we were seeing whilst enjoying an after sex cigarette.

It SEEMED we were just "friends." But she fell eventually.

Hehe. Reminds me of how two of my best friends (lets call them J &H) had a conversation about FBs in front of one of J's FBs (they were on Es and didn't think about it at the time).

H said "eventually the b*tch always falls." J agreed.

She didn't say anything at the time. A year later J told her that he was in love with her. She laughed triumphantly and said "the b*itch always falls."

You've been warned.

JJ

 

[sav]

Sav, my man, you are real close to stepping out of the matrix. Just don't listen to these guys saying she's a slut. Figure out how you've pulled off this feat and you'll be swimming in *****.

Anyway, I have a warning.

I had a FB for about ten years. We wouldn't shag when either of us were in a commited relationship, but we'd always shag when we were both single or dating.

We'd even talk about the other people we were seeing whilst enjoying an after sex cigarette.

It SEEMED we were just "friends." But she fell eventually.

Hehe. Reminds me of how two of my best friends (lets call them J &H) had a conversation about FBs in front of one of J's FBs (they were on Es and didn't think about it at the time).

H said "eventually the b*tch always falls." J agreed.

She didn't say anything at the time. A year later J told her that he was in love with her. She laughed triumphantly and said "the b*itch always falls."

You've been warned.

JJ

bro, you have the best stories on this board and usually give the best advice... i always look up to people of experience over people that just read a bunch of theory, and the more i think about it, the more i realise how much more i have to learn and how much more i have to experience...

i've always tried to keep my emotions in check in order to stay in control... i really dont wanna fall for this girl but it seems our relationship transcends everything... we can talk about anything with eachother, do anything together and always enjoy our times together (which to me is a perfect relationship)... nobody owes anything to the other...

what i described in my previous posts has been going on for about 2 years now... and its hard for me to concentrate on other girls when i (on a subconscious level) measure them up against her...

so far i've managed to stay detached to a certain extent... and i hope i wont be the ***** that will fall


thanks for the post JJ, always insightful.

 

[sav]

btw, to the guy that posted that she's a slut, i see your point, but what does that make me?

 

[Serialized3]

captain save-a-hoe!

 

[sav]

captain save-a-hoe!

cute

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

btw, to the guy that posted that she's a slut, i see your point, but what does that make me?

It only made you naive. Now that you know better, make your choice.
What do you want with the new information you've discovered here?

 

[Babnik]

HAhahahahahahahaha!

Another example of how THE GAME does not exist, you losers!

If suddenly a guy doesn't need the game or something doesn't WORK like it should - she is a slut!

These losers will find ALL kinds of excuses and try to convince you that you have to have game!

 

[sav]

naive in what way, and what choice are we talking about?

babnik, i believe in improving yourself and dont believe in pick up lines and **** like that, although i do believe that initially its a good way of emulating confidence.. kinda like "fake it till you make it"...

girls are attracted to people that are confident in themselves, which i am... and i guess thats what draws her to me... the one thing i enjoy most is a great conversation (the great sex that follows is an added bonus )

im not one to sleep around when im committed which isnt to say that i havent, in the end you do whats best for you and what you feel is right...

to find the right one, you have to go through many....

 

[Jay Jay]

Thanks for the props Sav. Good luck.

Hey Babs! I didn't get what you were saying on my first read of your post Spot on!

Allow me to expand.

Losers who can't get quality girls call any girl who has sex a slut. If they admitted that most girls are beautiful sensual creatures who want to have sex with great guys they would be forced to admit that... drum roll... THEY ARE NOT GREAT GUYS.

Instead of being introspective about their failure they blame female nature. Maybe if they did look at themselves they might realise that women pick up on their inner bitterness towards females and that their attitude makes as likeable as a skunk.

Basically these skunks get jealous when they read about dudes like sav getting success and instead of saying "nice one brother." they call his girl a slut.

JJ

 

[Jon55]

HAhahahahahahahaha!

Another example of how THE GAME does not exist, you losers!

If suddenly a guy doesn't need the game or something doesn't WORK like it should - she is a slut!

These losers will find ALL kinds of excuses and try to convince you that you have to have game!

Wait, so you're not trying to have any kind of game? Aren't these forums about seduction/game?

/serious question, not being an *******